I Have a Question

Some dating sites are better than others. Some are for women just wanting an ego stroke... the ones that have instant messaging tend to have more women wanting to meet up. Experiment with different ones. The pictur you use is really important too... get some advice from women on which photo of yourself to use...it shouldn't be too professional or casual.... it should be sexy... when you snap the picture think about kissing or having sex with a hot girl... your face will flush slightly and your eyes will express dominance and desire... key traits to attracting women with a photo.... messages should express interest and desire without being too forward and should always ask a question about something she likes. Even with all these tips you may not receive lots of messages but the women who respond will be mor into what you want. Cheers.

That is hard to believe. Is your profile picture Trump?

Forget dating sites. Places like this is where all the cool people hang out

I'm not being harsh at all ... 'yet' anyway. But there almost has to be something offensive about this guy's profile if no one in 3 months will even respond to a message. He doing something wayyyy wrong.

I'd have to see your dating profile page to make a good judgement as to why you are scaring these girls off. It doesn't make any sense why they wouldn't reply if you guys are all there to get to know each other and date.

Yes - there's a secret. Paste your 'About Me' from the site here and I'll give you the cold, hard skinny. You should be prime property at your age.

I'm not really sure but I hope eventually things work out

Well, I'm not sure dating sites are necessarily the benchmark we should be using to measure our sense of self-worth...

Maybe you're just a loser. Might wanna try gettin' rich and famous....

It varies based on their profile, but I almost always say hi, I'm John, and tell them they look cute in their pictures. But lately I've given up on dating sites.

I am also on a few different dating sights. What kinds of things do you normally send to people as a first message?

Google how to make a great online dating profile.... I hate to say it but 90%of it is your photo... ask women friends of yours to take flattering photos of you.

When the time is right, she will appear. The trick is to not look just observe 😉

If people don't respond it's your pictures more than your profile... have a female friend take some flattering photos of you.

Match.com and OkCupid. I mean, I always say something else too based on their profiles, I just always start with that.

There's a 5:1 gender ratio on dating sites, so for every 5 men there are 1 women, for every 100 women there are 500 women.

Yeah but... is getting a response a valid objective? I mean... what about actually connecting with someone in a meaningful way?

Oh I'd def say he needs some encouragement, too. But I think what he really wants is a message or two.

I can help(probably) if you like, JP.

Do what Donald Trump does... say something obnoxious, controversial, and self-absorbed.

Offer one free she head to every 12 reply. Winner.. girls love to play these kind of games.

If I was you, I'd keep trying. Hopefully you can find someone who will respond 👍

Well, yeah... he probably is. But, he might just need some positive encouragement...

I got lucky when I posted on here. Someone liked my post and I messaged them :)

hmm. Tbbh, you probably just aren't physically their type.

Just be friendly

Doesn't that one cost a lot?

Why is everyone being so harsh???