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How long have you been celibate and why?

Poll - Total Votes: 19
It's my choice.
I haven't found the right partner.
I'm in a sexless marriage but I don't like cheating.
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Just curious how other people manage to be sexless.
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MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
My marriage has been sexless for 13 years since my wife decided she was "too old for that stuff"
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@MrAverage1965 sad. I believe sex shouldn't stop. Most women crave for it but others just let the opportunity pass. What a shame!
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
@1PrivateHannah Thank you for your kind words, she never craved for it even when she was young
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@MrAverage1965 really and still you married her. You must love her that much!
Teslin · M
C for me 😊
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Teslin what is a C?
Teslin · M
@1PrivateHannah 3rd option
Amur8711 · 31-35, M
Just haven't had luck finding the right girl yet.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Amur8711 She will come at the right time.
Amur8711 · 31-35, M
@1PrivateHannah thanks 😊

I hope soon! I don't want to be an old father lol if we do have kids.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Amur8711 You can do it till 40, and when you're 60, the kid is 19.
Good enough, I guess.

I gave birth to my son when I was 37. He's 19 now.
CatCatKittie · 51-55, F
I prefer to take care of things myself rather than with a random man/men. Always a happy ending that way 😉
Birdbox1986 · 31-35, F
Because I don’t like having sex with random men
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Birdbox1986 same feeling.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I've chosen to go my own way since I left my second ex the day before my 50th birthday in 2018 and I've not had, wanted, or really tried to have, a sexual romantic intimate relationship since. There's much more to life than sex. There is no reward or benefit or return on investment to having relationships anymore as I'm not a woman who is only after a man's money.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@zonavar68 There are women who are not after a man's money. Just be careful.
Some love companionship and reciprocation
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@1PrivateHannah I believe you, but to date I haven't found any like that that are prepared to given genuine love, peace, respect, acceptance, etc. On the flipside, I pretty much shut the gate for that since I'm neuro-divergent, introverted, and both demi- and sapio-sexual so that writes off almost all women that might be interested because most women won't accept a man who isn't 'normal' in how they view and respond to the world around them.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@zonavar68 whatever makes you happy is the most important thing.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I'm mostly celibate because I'm in a sexless mariage but I have the occasional affair. Of course that is becoming less frequent now (actually it was never frequent).
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@1PrivateHannah I don't want to spend the rest of my life without touch or intimacy or sex.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@JimboSaturn We don't have to.
I wish I could just do casual sex but I'm too sentimental for that.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@1PrivateHannah Definitely not for everyone.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Sexless but not of my choosing
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Degbeme Sorry to hear that.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@1PrivateHannah Thank you. But on the bright side. My hands work. 🤭
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Degbeme That is our best option! 😅
available4 · 70-79, M
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Lots of masturbation.
beetlebumdont · 26-30, F
I refuse to have sex
Iwillwait · M
When I was celibate it was for many many years.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Iwillwait some good things never last
Iwillwait · M
@1PrivateHannah Not sure if the term "Good," really applies here at all. Seemingly, this situation was anything but "Good," had it been so, we would still be together.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Iwillwait Well, I was referring to the good times that you shared together.
ronisme1 · 70-79, M
10 years after open heart surgery
RebelRaven · 51-55, F
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@RebelRaven I feel you.
justanotherone · 56-60, M
I wouldn't say sexless.
It just lesssex.
OutoftheGloom · 46-50, F
Just over two years. My husband died. For a while I went a bit crazy and all I thought about was sex. I think that's a part of grief that nobody wants to talk about.
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@OutoftheGloom Sorry for your loss.
You can talk about it here. Share a post about how you feel and you'll see comments from good-natured people who might have the same thoughts or experiences.
OutoftheGloom · 46-50, F
@1PrivateHannah thank you xx
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@OutoftheGloom You're always welcome!
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
@Iknowyourouttheresomewhere you're too secretive!
@1PrivateHannah Secretive? I prefer mysterious 😏 😅

 
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