What's one thing people pretend doesn't matter in relationships but actually does?

Their broader families, especially relationships with their parents.

Culture.

How you squeeze the toothpaste tube.

Respect, acceptance of differences/faults/flaws. Two but very connected things.

This probably didn’t matter in the past, but it absolutely does now… having similar political values.

Touch and feel

The past and money

Dudes cant show emotions or she gone..