Seriously consider your privilege if you can complain about complainers 😂
What do you know about the brain, experience and psyche of each individual?
And do you even care?
And do you even care?
41-45, F
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@DearAmbellina2113 A lot of people don't understand.
My therapist shared some stuff about EDMR with me that helped me understand the ways we use to cope are part of us..they are not bad, even if they aren't the best possible resolution.
When I used to cut people thought I was psycho, but I've since learned it was my brain trying to cope with all the pain. It's not shameful. Ffs we already feel enough shame. We've already thought and over thought about solutions. We simply want to exist and speak. Just because the extreme hurt we go through isn't relatable to everyone doesn't mean they get to shame us too.
My therapist shared some stuff about EDMR with me that helped me understand the ways we use to cope are part of us..they are not bad, even if they aren't the best possible resolution.
When I used to cut people thought I was psycho, but I've since learned it was my brain trying to cope with all the pain. It's not shameful. Ffs we already feel enough shame. We've already thought and over thought about solutions. We simply want to exist and speak. Just because the extreme hurt we go through isn't relatable to everyone doesn't mean they get to shame us too.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@DearAmbellina2113 Someone complaining about strangers venting on social media is a special kind of snowflake. Do I need to bring crayons to explain to you where the block and mute button is? Or how to use a wheel on a mouse to scroll past things that don't interest you? Nobody forces you to read or even see posts by other users.
For some people this place is all they have. Some just come here to focus on things that annoy them. That is also a choice but that would need a bit of self-reflection on their part to realize they deliberately seek out things to be mad about.
For some people this place is all they have. Some just come here to focus on things that annoy them. That is also a choice but that would need a bit of self-reflection on their part to realize they deliberately seek out things to be mad about.