Are you allowed to get upset or show irritation under these circumstances?

Scenario: your partner comes home from work, they greet you at the door with a kiss, suggest they cook you dinner, run you a bath, walk the dog.

When you come downstairs to make yourself a cuppa tea, you notice the wipe they used to wipe the dogs ass (with p**p on it) they leave on the side board in the hallway.

This isn't the first time and it's something you've mentioned and reminded them about a few times.

Now it's irked you and your whole mood changes.

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@romell 👍🏾

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@tobynshorty I agree. But it seems I need to be a better partner and just pick up after him.

Lilymoon · F

If it happened the one time and you told him about it fine.
But if it happens again, then there's a problem.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Lilymoon it's a repeated thing. This is just an example of one type of thing.
It could be the same with the tea towel. It should be placed on the oven handle something he started but he will throw it somewhere then can't find it.
So will get a new one only to find the old one. And so then there's one slung across the counter and the other in the oven.

If I say he's absent minded apparently I'm dissing him.
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tobynshorty · 51-55, F

Its a matter of proper sanitation and good hygiene. Does he wash his hands after wiping the dog? I would come unglued.

HotPizza71 · 51-55, MVIP

Maybe it was an oversight,but still worth mentioning,just in case they did forget

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@HotPizza71 I've seen another member mention that she'd just pick it up. But I find it really irritating. Mostly because it's dog 💩 left on a surface.

I just feel like it's the beginning of constantly picking up after him.

HotPizza71 · 51-55, MVIP

@Mellowgirl oh for sure,I'd find it horrible finding something like that ,just sat on the side,totally understand why you'd want to speak up,and I think anyone would

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