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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Making themselves up for hours, yet for no real reason.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
@DeWayfarer In the bathroom for an hour and comes out looking the same (not somebody I dated).
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@DeWayfarer hypergamy. They aren't doing a 'glow up' for you but for other men ( and perhaps other women).
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@GeniUs I asked a girl out for a date once. We got along real fine at work. Yet she insisted to do her makeup routine.
By the time we went out for dinner she was half asleep. 😞
By the time we went out for dinner she was half asleep. 😞
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@zonavar68 See my other reply above. She was really having a hard time just keeping her eyes open. 🤷🏻♂
It was all for no one.
It was all for no one.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@DeWayfarer It was for herself.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@LordShadowfire If it was for herself she just wouldn't have gone on the date. She was that tired. We both had to work the next morning.
And it was exactly an easy job.
And it was exactly an easy job.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@DeWayfarer I don't think you fully understand. When a woman does that, it's a confidence booster for her. It's like...
Well, have you ever gotten all dressed up? Just put together the perfect outfit, that looks absolutely amazing? Then you go out on the town, seeing everybody seeing you, knowing that you're killing it? You do that for you. You do that for your self confidence. That's what I mean.
Well, have you ever gotten all dressed up? Just put together the perfect outfit, that looks absolutely amazing? Then you go out on the town, seeing everybody seeing you, knowing that you're killing it? You do that for you. You do that for your self confidence. That's what I mean.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@LordShadowfire And you are not getting what I am saying.
Why even go on a date if you can't do anything because you can't keep your eyes opened?
You can't be confident or anything if you are half asleep. In fact that would be the total opposite of being confident. It could lead to no self esteem by being taken advantaged of.
Yeah this girl did sort of trusted me. Yet we hadn't known each other very long. We only worked together for a couple of weeks. Yet believe me I had seen her at her worst looks because of that work.
That's what sort of drew me to her in the first place. She didn't care what she looked like at work. It was a dirty job.
Have you ever cleaned up after 200 kids at a summer camp? It was just me and her to do the whole clean up every day. Dorms, restrooms, shower areas, dinning hall, even the pool area locker rooms. We did it all together.
Her being able to do that together with me, is what drew her to me. She was one of the few that worked good together with me. All the others wanted to be separate. Which was against the rules of the place. Two person rule, so you couldn't be accused of anything, like theft or worse.
Why even go on a date if you can't do anything because you can't keep your eyes opened?
You can't be confident or anything if you are half asleep. In fact that would be the total opposite of being confident. It could lead to no self esteem by being taken advantaged of.
Yeah this girl did sort of trusted me. Yet we hadn't known each other very long. We only worked together for a couple of weeks. Yet believe me I had seen her at her worst looks because of that work.
That's what sort of drew me to her in the first place. She didn't care what she looked like at work. It was a dirty job.
Have you ever cleaned up after 200 kids at a summer camp? It was just me and her to do the whole clean up every day. Dorms, restrooms, shower areas, dinning hall, even the pool area locker rooms. We did it all together.
Her being able to do that together with me, is what drew her to me. She was one of the few that worked good together with me. All the others wanted to be separate. Which was against the rules of the place. Two person rule, so you couldn't be accused of anything, like theft or worse.