What the heck does it mean when someone keeps saying things that contradict?

That’s a huge red flag and a signal to run. Nothing makes sense because you can’t make sense out of nonsense. They’re just a large can of mixed nuts. 🥜

That sounds like something I personally have gotten enough of to where I can’t be bothered. My advice is don’t even bother trying to understand it and just get out of there. Life’s too short to suffer that noise.

Sounds narcissistic to me...

I have finally learned that when I hear myself say that I'm confused, while trying to make sense of a person's incongruent and contradictory words/actions... I know I'm being manipulated.

If this is while In a text scroll and not "Actual Speaking" perhaps you're reading into the text incorrectly.

Sounds like someone trying to manipulate you.

Sounds like someone to cut off

They're making the rules up as they go along. The lack of consistency is to shake your confidence and plant seeds of doubt to assert control over the dynamics between the two of you. You can't reason with someone like this. Disengaging is your best bet, at least in the moment

Sounds like my 2nd X. Major bipolar syndrome. AND she saved it all up just for me when she got home.

It means the wheel is spinning, but the hamster is dead.

Sounds like marriage.

its called meth