I Have a Question

@nightly i don't belive your on..but lately i been thinking of trying to ask my now bff out agin.yes i asked her out once before but she didnt wanna date anyone at the time and i barly known her as will. Anyway she ended up dating a friend she told me she liked for awhile but didnt work out after 5 months..but she handlie the break up pefectly. Amyway we been friends for a year and we are pretty close now we spent half the night cuddling at a bleach. I didnt become friends with her just so we cand date..i have accpeted the fact were friends and love our friendship and sometime ask myself what it would be like dating her you know?i had a rough break up a year ago and her friendship made me a lot more happy.o yea the only reason i sometime think about dating her..is the fact she told her friends as i was walking away to get some food that.. Her parents would never approve of me becuase they are kindof raceist but not,they just belive if your black or spinash you will acted a certain way. I have met her mom and she likes me just..haven't met her dad yet. Lastly she always bring up the fact i asked her out once lol.

I see. Her parents aren't the ones that really matter in the long run. The ones who matter are you and her. If you think you can ask her out again without making it weird, go for it. There's a possibility that she's afraid you won't be her friend if a romantic relationship doesn't work out and doesn't want to risk it. Tell her how you feel with complete honesty. Even if she says no, if you express how you honestly feel you will feel better about the whole situation in the long run.

If you're cool with how things are, then the status quo might be the better way to go. If she thinks you two can't date for some reason, then you're probably permanent friendzoned. If you want to go to the aquarium as friends, that's actually really fun. My suggestion with the new information is to apreaciate the friendship and enjoy each others company. Being in a romantic relationship is not a requirement to being human, and long periods of singlehood can be beneficial for spiritual growth.

@nightly will she was dating her ex bf behind their backs and that's not something i would want...not making it werid would be hard..since the first time she didnt even realized i asked her out so endeding up giving her a why i like you card. Idk if she afarid ill won't be here friend anymore if dating doesn't work out..because i lost my bff i dated a year ago but i tried everything to stay friends with my gf but just didnt work. So i can say 100% that even if dating didnt work out I'd still he her friend. We are going to a aquarium tm should i ask her tm? Idk if its the right time since its been a few weeks since she broke up with a bf.but she was pretty much in the same type of relationship was me...we dated ppl that were ghost...know what i mean?like we barly sew them or talked at all. I dumped my 2rd gf 2 months ago. Also she told 1 of her friends that she cant date me..so thought maybe she does feel a lil sonething for me. Idk it its true but her friend told me that

@nightly am cool with the way things are and even the small feels i have her.but wanted a chanfe to see if the small feeling i have can be something more. I was friends with my first ex for years..we always felt something for each other..just never dated till a year ago and the start of it was really good..but d8dnt work out. Ill be moving 5 house next to my ex gf house in 2 weeks..so also werid something will happened between me and my ex gf. I once prayed..for a 2rd chance with my ex gf..we had a house fire and the only house they have is the one by my ex gf. I have accepted everything that happened with my ex..but some ppl think god will give me a 2rd chance with her. I just think its a small 2world.

@night yea i spent a year and bald working on myself then dated another girl and didnt work out.i was gonna wait and see if she asks me out byherself or asks to talk about it.

So what seems to be your relationship problem this evening?