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Why would you care

About someone who has not given a crap about you for so long ?
SW-User
Damn good question
Because my love is forever. My trust is much more fragile, however.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@JustGoneNow
That’s beautiful 💔
I’m so glad you have a wonderful girlfriend now .
@Niloo ty 🖤🤗
Niloo · 46-50, F
@TexChik
Yes
She is 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Soossie
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@TexChik

Oh darling!! I feel the same about you beautiful soul..🤗❤
JustNik · 51-55, F
I’ve grown limits over time in what I’ll express or give, but the caring is never dependent on reciprocation. Not prioritizing me does not make someone a bad or unlikable person.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@JustNik
Right!!!
I’m totally done with the “welcome mat” part 😁👍
JustNik · 51-55, F
@Niloo 🤗🤗🤗❤️
Niloo · 46-50, F
@JustNik
🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️
Because I care about others more than I care about myself...
Niloo · 46-50, F
@submissivelittlewoman
You have a good heart 🤗
@Niloo 💜🤗
HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F
Because you commit.... and sometimes that commitment fails and you hold on longer than you should.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@HotMessExpress102
Good point ..
Because you have a good heart. Just because you cared and they didn't, speaks volumes about YOU & them. Greater significance on your part though. You will let go one day though, atleast that is my biggest hope for you, chickie. Love is hard, unloving is harder.🌷🤗
@Niloo You'll never completely be free, so that's important to always remember most. It isn't or wasn't love if you ever forget.💛🌼
Niloo · 46-50, F
@MoonlightLullaby

That’s why I’m pissed off 😅
@Niloo With good reasoning......
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I’ve learned that while I can’t always control how I feel, I can control my actions. So, I feel what I feel. Love doesn’t die easily for me. But I can still keep my distance for my own well-being.
@JustGoneNow 🤗🤗🤗
@bijouxbroussard 🤗🤗🤗
@bijouxbroussard How’s the fam?
Ksmile14 · F
idk but I do it :(
Ksmile14 · F
@JustGoneNow 🤗❤️
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Ksmile14
Many of us do 🤗
Ksmile14 · F
@Niloo 🤗
Happymedium · 56-60, F
It's hard when your feelings are so clear....but not reciprocated
😐😑😔
SW-User
@Happymedium That's what I meant by living a lie
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Niloo · 46-50, F
@seeandhear
But deep inside, you know ...
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
Because me love you long time. 😁
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Degbeme
Awwwwww🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🥰
Love you too Deg ❤️❤️❤️
SW-User
Because even though they hurt me, I will never wish anything bad on them.
SW-User
@Niloo It always does, for me; they don't deserve it..
Niloo · 46-50, F
@SW-User
🤗
SW-User
@Niloo 🤗 I just can't hate people. 😭
Coppercoil · M
Black magic.. some people cast a strange kind of spell on you. No one hates it more than the person bewitched.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Coppercoil
I knew it !!!!😱
SW-User
amour
so long
it's all I
know
her life's
my song
and I so
adore
and I'll go
content
to my grave
just as long
as I know
she's safe
Niloo · 46-50, F
@SW-User
That’s beautiful .❤️
Thank you .
HannahSky · F
Sometimes, you only want good for someone, doesn't mean you still want to be with them.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@HannahSky
Yes!
That person could be a friend
A sibling or family member
For whatever reason , you just can’t stop caring
HannahSky · F
@Niloo exactly
Pfuzylogic · M
I was fortunate enough that the last five years of marriage; she attacked me continually while she cheated. By the time of divorce, I had committed all of my emotions and devotion to my oath before God.
Our Love was dead.
You managed to dodge the attacks on your mind and therefor keep your emotion as a devotion to that person who doesn’t deserve it.
You will stay in my prayers. 🙏🏻
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Pfuzylogic
Thank you my friend
I’m sorry you had to go though it all
..
Pfuzylogic · M
@Niloo
We don’t earn these situations.
I fell in live at first sight and we had four children. We have shared similar plights.
I am grateful that my emotions for her didn’t keep me captivated.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
You shouldn't!
Niloo · 46-50, F
@samueltyler2
I learned tonight that I might not be able to control my emotions but I can control my actions
I can stay away
That , I can do for sure ...
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Niloo like with AA, if you are feeling the need, reach out to us.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@samueltyler2
Thank you
That’s exactly what I’m doing !
I appreciate all the help and support 🤗
me caring for someone does not always mean I expect the feeling to be reciprocated. Not saying I am a doormat but there are some people I will always care for, regardless
Niloo · 46-50, F
@InOtterWords
Yep
I know the feeling 😐
Some people are narcissistic, others can't let go
Niloo · 46-50, F
@BeefySenpie
Sucks!
Doesn’t it ?
TexChik · F
Hmmm , I’m likely to move on from that .
Niloo · 46-50, F
@TexChik
Good for you 💪🏼👍🤗
If they don't make your toes curl up when they pleasure you, you don't have time for them.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@puck61
Please don’t be !
What you said is absolutely correct when it comes to a love partner 🙂
@Niloo Thank you. I am just embarrassed by my own superficiality. I understand how many levels there are to our interactive psyches,
Niloo · 46-50, F
@puck61
Please don’t be 🤗
I appreciate you taking the time to respond 🤗
SW-User
Because I was living a lie for 2 yrs b4 dense me got it
Niloo · 46-50, F
@SW-User
I’m sorry
We live and learn ... right ?
SW-User
@Niloo In my case, live, yes, learn, no, I keep making the same mistakes over and over.
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
Good question. I've wondered that many times over the past few years.
Niloo · 46-50, F
Thank you
I got many wonderful comments
Hope it helps .
Eventually, I just "forget" that they even exist.
@latinbutterfly I wouldn’t forget you. Just saying. 🖤🖤🖤
@JustGoneNow 🤗💙
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Even though they don't care, I often still do.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@rottenrobi
* sigh*
I know the feeling ..
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I think sometimes the good memories keep us emotionally hostage.
Lee124 · F
There's different types of caring; well for me there is anyway. I don't care enough for my ex that I would want to be involved with him ever again, but I do care enough about him to want him to be successful and happy because we still have children together, and he needs to support them. Our children's happiness and wellbeing means more to me than anything in this world.
SalamiMule · 31-35, M
Habit. I grew up around girls who were older than me, taller than me, and ignored me. So who was I most attracted to in college? An older, taller woman who ignored me.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@SalamiMule
I’m sorry
At least you know why
So, maybe you can change things for the better ?😐
SalamiMule · 31-35, M
@Niloo Oh I do better than that. I'm too socially inept for it to matter who I'm attracted to anyway 👍
romell · 51-55, M
Depends ..if he's rich or not lol
Niloo · 46-50, F
@romell
Goof!🤭
@romell But that’s not about caring. That’s remaining for material reasons.
SW-User
@bijouxbroussard Gold digger!
OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M
No idea...just happens...*sigh*... being human is too confusing...
Niloo · 46-50, F
@OnePatheticClown
Sometime completely unexpected ...
Yes
Being humans is very confusing ..
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Because I believe in giving second-chances
Niloo · 46-50, F
@JupiterDreams
Hopefully they deserve it 🤗
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Niloo 🤗🌷
Because love is a choice and often a decision
Niloo · 46-50, F
@PrivateHell
Are you sure love is a choice ?
Haven’t you ever fallen for someone you shouldn’t have ?
@PrivateHell Is love itself a choice ? Feelings can come, unbidden.
But one can choose not to act upon them.
No clue. Addiction to suffering?
Niloo · 46-50, F
@AnonymouslyYours
Maybe ...
SW-User
Sometimes I wonder
Niloo · 46-50, F
@SW-User
Humans!!!!
We have issues 🤭
SW-User
@Niloo lots
memories are hard to put aside
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Elevatorpitches
I do😩
@Niloo so do I.
The innate nature, some us are just program to do that. We become selfless, are blind and or just deeply invested in that person that.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@aaaabbbb
It makes sense ..
Thank you
rfhh1959 · 61-69, M
Because I said I would and now it is to late to exit
Loyalty, memories, and hope.
Niloo · 46-50, F
@NudasPriest
Hope ...
So true
Had not though of that
Thank you 🤗

 
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