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Can you control who your attracted to?

Do you think we all have a type or preference?
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
Yes and no and i won't speak for everyone. It seems there are biological reasons for why men and women consistently find certain features attractive in the opposite sex. In my experience there are certain features that i have consistently found attractive in women throughout my life. There are certain features that have grown on me if i give them a chance. There are certain features i may not have found attractive 10 years ago that i do now and vice versa. So yes and no to answer your question simply.
Iwillwait · M
Great question, the heart wants, what the heart wants.. .
Umile · 41-45, F
@Iwillwait Truth. But, Ithink I can go withwhat I need.
Iwillwait · M
@Umile as you should. Free will, is what it is. Please choose wisely.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
I can't at least if there is a way idk about it
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
I definitely have a type, I can be attracted in a sense that I appreciate their looks but don’t take it past that 98% of the time.
Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
Nah I think we are attracted to what we are attracted to .. but we can control our urges.
No fun in controlling that
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
I know what I am not attracted to.
Wiseacre · F
I don't believe so..can u?
Arantxa · 18-21, F
Wolffy · 56-60, M
@Arantxa i agree nope
bookerdana · M
I guess broadly..but its whats under the hood that counts
Holden · 26-30, M
I definitely have a type and I have no control over it. I love emo girls.
fetish2277 · 46-50, M
As someone who has a very strong fetish, it's hard but yes you can, I'm strongly attached to a certain looking type of female which can at times over rule me, but not all the time. However if I ignore the fetish which I can on times with ease it always creeps back, to answer your question I think it depends how strong your mind is
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
ThE 0.000000001% of WimenZ WhOz hOttZ
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
I have a type and a preference, but it's fungible depending on certain circumstances and conditions. I can't really control it. You like who you like. That's why I don't believe people who say you can choose what gender you can love. I think they're projecting.
Umile · 41-45, F
I think I can look beyond what I want.

If it's good and what I need, I'll take it.

Could've settled a long time ago.

But, I don't think I'd be happier now.

Kids would've been the consolation prize.
SeaGlass · F
No more than I can control who I'm not attracted to, so no. I have more than one type but I'm sure some have just one or none, or are fine with almost anyone
SW-User
Of course we all have preferences but we are also capable of making changes to those preferences as we get to know people
I don't have physical preferences but I only feel attraction to kind people with little pride.
Terminal · 26-30, M
Yes and we are commanded to
Lilymoon · F
Chemistry says it all
Rokan · 31-35, M
I can control it yes
Different hats, for different cats 🐱

For sure 🫶🏼😻
Musicman · 61-69, MVIP
Sadly no. When love strikes us it strikes us.

 
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