Will you stay together for the kids?

I didn’t, ya we struggled, I went without a lot so they had what they needed and wanted but we were happier than being in an angry, toxic environment.

I didn’t with my ex. He was too selfish and not wanting to carry his responsibilities and our daughter was about to start kindergarten and I couldn’t even see her at school with him coming for a teacher’s conference etc. He was too self-centered and seemed to be getting more immature as he aged. Some people should never get married, they can’t keep their end of the bargain.

Hell, I want the KIDS to stay together for ME!!

No, kids are not stupid they pick up on things.

Yes.

We are together for the kids. I sleep in the spare room downstairs. It costs a lot to separate, and the kids suffer.

[c=BF0000] future knows
Hope e Marry for love and stay there for love only and there will always be one soulmate [/c]

Did it for long years.
I still regret it.

Oh hell no that'll do more damage to the kids than good trust me

Only have one kid. She has her own kid.

Kind of.

I would.

No
Kids aren't stupid ....they feel EVERYTHING that's going on, even if you want to believe you shelter them from it.
It hurts them, it makes them angry and depressed and they can take on guilt that isn't theirs.
All they see is dysfunctional people teaching them dysfunctional ways.

I work at a high school, Ive heard many kids stories of home - they always know EXACTLY what's going on between parents . They see it, they feel it ....and resilient as they are, it hurts them too.

People can argue this both ways, but my parents divorced when I was 7 years old, after that me and my older sister of two years ended up with a resentful mother and a bastard of a step father, it made me stronger and the person I am today, but it ruined my sister.

Yep