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Are there people who just give off vibes that make you uncomfortable but you can't explain what exactly it is about them that gives off those vibes?

Last summer my nieces came over to swim in the pool my apartment complex has. There was this lone older man who gave off vibes I didn't care for he just seemed creepy to me. He never did anything but there was just something about him that made me uncomfortable. The entire time my nieces enjoyed the pool I kept tabs on that man until he eventually left after awhile. I've only ever felt that exact feeling one other time at a park when I was a kid. My brother and I were playing at the park down the street from where we lived with our mother. I was always the shy one and was abandoned while he ran around with other kids. I hung back and noticed a lone man long hair in a ponytail rather scruffy looking potentially homeless. He just sat on the bench and watched the kids. Could have been harmless but his vibe I didn't trust it felt odd. I felt compelled to watch this man. Eventually I told my big brother I wanted to go home. I saw him a few times at that park and he did the same thing each time and each time I felt compelled to keep an eye on him.
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
The police will tell you in self-defense classes for the public to always trust your instincts. He told of some incidents that happened and the victims had said that they had a strange feeling but didn’t know why and that they ignored them and ended up as victims.

There’s a small park about 6 blocks from where I live. It has some benches, a couple of grills to barbecue on and some play equipment, a very small park but a pretty one. I used to walk in that area because it was low traffic. It backs up to a strip of woods. The last time I walked there I got a very strange feeling like someone’s eyes was watching me. I hurried up and went back home and never felt safe to return. A couple years later my neighbor, who is a tall & large woman, told me she had the same experience when she was walking around the outside the park. I told her that it happened to me and I never went back. It had never happened to me before that. I believe that some homeless are sleeping in those woods and Walmart is only a short walk away. They probably go over there and eat their way through the store, drink from the outdoor hydrant for the landscaping products and steal spray paint to sniff when they get back to the woods.
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@cherokeepatti Sounds about right there is a park in town where a lot of them go camp out in at night. I know exactly what you are describing.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@separatetheheart There are a lot of wooded areas around this city that are camp sites for them. As soon as the property owners get the police involved and clean up the site they move on to another one, or else come back and put up more tents and trash it (especially if they don’t bull doze or brush hog the overgrown trees. Makes it easier to check if people driving by can see inside the area and see that it is being used to camp in. There was one 4 blocks from here and the property owner got it cleaned out about 6 months ago. He is trying to sell the corner lot and it is wood, it is zoned for business.
Dogs will bark at people they feel uncomfortable with. Like they can read their thoughts and it makes their fur stand on end. I imagine people have the same ability although it is not so obvious.
You are right to keep an eye on solo males that watch kids, there is a real danger, good for you. Keep it up.
Magenta · F
Yes there are indeed. You were wise to be aware and cognizant.

On the other hand, not this type of situation, I think sometimes we pick up on others being uncomfortable with US and assume it's a bad vibe about them.
Neoerectus · M
When young working seasonal forestry job, this one guy who was well liked,. Gave me the royal creeps. I never saw him do anything, but he gave me serious deep dark vibes... Have often wondered about that guy.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Neoerectus had something similar. I liked him until i found stuff out. I realised after hes doing the nice guy act to pull the wool over peoples eyes.
Instincts. I listen when my son brings it up too. It's good stuff.
Quite a few times. I think it’s best to trust those feelings.
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@nonsensiclesnail Instincts never lie.
Adrift · 61-69, F
I remember when I was about 13 or 14, I was at the the school letting my dog run.
This guy came out of nowhere and tried to start up a conversation about what kind of dog I had.
I kept my distance from him and told him that he was an unfriendly dog and he had better just leave.
The guy started to walk closer and my dog lunged forward and landed in the guys chest knocking clean on his butt.
The guy got up and ran off.
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@Adrift The dog knew things
Adrift · 61-69, F
@separatetheheart
The dog was a Doberman, German shepherd mix.
He was really smart and very protective.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Adrift He may have very well saved your life.
YoMomma · 41-45
Yeah when we were kids there was this guy in a van that would sit behind our house and watch us.. we always stayed far away from him.. thought he was a kidnapper 😅 who knows.. maybe he really was 😳
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@YoMomma Bonus points if it was a white cargo van. You were probably right about the kidnapper he doesn't sound like he's up to any good.
YoMomma · 41-45
@separatetheheart yeah i don't remember what color the van was it was maybe a rusty brows/red? Idk it was the 90’s
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@YoMomma I miss the simpler times of the 90s.
YoMomma · 41-45
It’s good you look out for your nieces because there are some really creepy evil people out there.. unfortunately
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@YoMomma I agree there are too many bad apples roaming around. I care about them as if they were my own.
YoMomma · 41-45
@separatetheheart yeah. Aww good ☺ me too when i babysat kids ☺
Yes
I tend to avoid those people
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Trust your instincts in those scenarios
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@WaryWitchWandering They never lie.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I always know why.
Which vibes do I give off?
separatetheheart · 31-35, M
@Husher I don't know I'd have to meet you in person.
Wiseacre · F
I often dislike ppl without knowing why.
Iwillwait · M
You're possibly being over zealous.
Body language, pheromones, eye contact.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Yes I do my best to avoid people like that
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twiigss · M
@WowwGirl I thought that was Carlos? 🤭
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@twiigss I already named him gay Connor when I found out he was really Carlos.

 
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