If your friend is smoking two packs a day, drinking a 12 pack of beer, and knocking down 3 big macs a day........

are you doing them a favor by telling them the world should love them just the way they are ??? are we helping them jump into an early grave by telling them everything is gonna be okay ??

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CheezeburgerBrown · 36-40, M

This is trauma .. food brings him comfort.. smoking eases anxiety ..and drinking hides their true feelings .. one might ask why the addiction .. but some who is there to help would ask “why the pain” ..