Her boobs are bigger than her red flags so I’m going to ignore them

@GeistInTheMachine But that's when you dump her and run!!!

@Allelse Yup. Rinse and repeat.

@GeistInTheMachine Don't get them pregnant, I mean there's enough childhood suffering in the world.

@Allelse Trust me, I know. I was that child. I don't want kids, I'm antinatalist. My parents gave me Hell. I'm not doing the family thing. I don't want to live past 40.

@GeistInTheMachine I'm with you there. BIG TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's just not far on the child and besides I had HORRIBLE parents. They hate each other, they hated everybody else and they hated us kids. SUCH JOY!!! And yeah some of my earliest memories are "Damn, this sucks, I wish I was dead".

@Allelse I will never understand how bad parents live with themselves or sleep at night.

But I guess bad people just don't care in the end.

My father wouldn't lose a wink if I died.

@GeistInTheMachine They'll always have an excuse or a reason why they're not at fault, or that they're being victamised or how 'they did their best!!!'. Like really? How was sexually abusing me and stabbing me in the hand with a fork again and again and again, doing your best.

@Allelse I don't necesarily believe in Hell, but there is a special place in hell for shit parents if there were such a thing.

They create all the ills in society.

Find me one dictator that had loving parents.

Now, there are always exceptions that prove the rule, but damn. The level of Hell on Earth shit parents cause is unfathomable.

They make everyone suffer.

@GeistInTheMachine If there is such a place it must be pretty bloody crowded. Or those parents who aren't as bad as the other parent but they enable it. I had a friend whose mother just let it happen because she wouldn't leave him. Then she'd get together with all the other beaten mothers and they'd whine and weep about how terrible their husbands were, and do nothing. While their children suffered.

@Allelse Yup! Let 'em rot with the abusive husband. Absolute wretches of humanity.