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I was just at the park..my happy place. It was gorgeous out, and I was reading. I felt some movement to the side of me, and saw a guy had sat on the

shelf beside me.

He was maybe 7 feet away, but it was still kinda weird. I was like okay, do you, and went back to my book...It was twilight and it was truly beautiful out.

A few seconds later, he was passing in front of me. He said, "Sorry if this is weird, but is it okay if I sit next to you?"

I said uh sure..is it ok if I keep reading? He said yeah, do you....But i felt kinda awkward and couldn't focus.

He asked what size shoes I wear, and I told him..He started kinda touching my foot! Then he asked if I wanted my feet rubbed while I read!

This guy was actually super hot, but I felt super like..unprotected. I said look, I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but I have been assaulted....You prob shouldn't just go around asking girls if you can rub their feet.

I actually ended up talking to him 30 or 45 mins..but as it got darker, I made my excuses to leave. He started walking to the parking lot with me tho, and I told him that he needed to go to his truck and leave before I even made my way to mine.

He agreed without a fuss and left, and I called my best friend to explain the situation. When i got home, i hugged him tight and actually almost started crying??

Like i said, the guy was super nice..said he had just moved from vermont 2 months ago and knew only one person..but who knows if that is true....

Just..y'all, there were people around at first..but they all started leaving..and i was virtually alone with this stranger. Be aware of your surroundings and protect yourselves!!
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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
I'm super hyper vigilant as well, and I think while it can be tiring being on the defensive, it can protect you too.
You did everything right. It doesn’t matter how hot a guy is, he got into your personal space and that makes that makes him super creepy. I am glad you are safe. 🫂
That made me shiver, just reading it. I'm glad you're OK, and that you made wise choices.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@NudasPriest aw thank you..i have been assaulted far too often to try for it again!!!!! I want those chapters behind me!!!!!!
There are better ways than uninvited touching and offers of bodily contact to ingratiate yourself. Maybe he's very confident or very unaware of how uncomfortable he can make people feel. Remember to never go to the park without your pepper spray.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@aboveaverageaveragejoe thank you..yeah exactly..i have already secured some bear mace from my best friend!
Teslin · M
You never know. Please be careful and I am glad you are safe.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Teslin thank you, me too 🥺
caccoon · 36-40
That is soooo sketchy. I am glad you were safe and smart about it!
Punxi · F
Damn! 😮

Im reading this and it kust keeps escalating...

I'm soooo glad you made your way outta THAT.

Regardless of how hot, how nice....thats creepy.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Punxi thanks girl, yeah he said that..in Vermont..people just walk over to each others' tables and start talking..i was like hmm is that true..he said he lived a podunk town, and that everyone kinda dresses the same and does blue collar work.
Punxi · F
@foldedunfolding Yeah...Psych. 101. Any cop will tell ya...too many details.

Something any right with the story.

He was over compensating.
MellyMel22 · F
Glad you left safely 🤍
MellyMel22 · F
@foldedunfolding Hopefully it doesn’t again. Do you carry pepper spray?
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@MellyMel22 i have already secured bear mace!! Definitely taking no chances next time, even with people around. They can all leave soo quickly!
MellyMel22 · F
@foldedunfolding Good, just to be safe.
always best to be super cautious, even if others don't understand
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Bexsy there are these wide wooden seats built into the ground at the park..big enough for two people..if he had approached without like..trying to rub my feet or something..idk..it must be hard for guys to hit on girls, if in fact that is what he was truly doing. He said i looked good..guessed my age at 13 yrs younger than i am..etc..but who knows what his true motives were..the fact that he tried to leave when i did, and walk me to the parking lot..nottt a fan of that.
@foldedunfolding totally get that
Amandapower · 26-30, F
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
The scary part is having to talk your way around and away from these people. Because if you tell them to get away and piss them off you don't know what will happen. And these days you get murdered in front of 20 people and they'll scatter to not be involved.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@ScreamingFox yeapp they just DIP or take VIDEO ughhh
That sounds really creepy. Glad you're ok.
Super nice?
How about super weird🤨

😑He touched and asked to rub your feet🤯


Ppl thought Ted Bundy was good looking ⚰
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@eyeswideshut exactly..there were several red flags for sure.
weirdos come in all varieties. he probably wears diapers too.
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