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My cat is the only good man left

After 2 abusive narcissistic relationships. Alcoholic, drug addicted abusive parents and stepparent. Being left by my biological father. And multiple other horrible dating experiences with men. I have come to the conclusion that my male cat is the only good man left. He’s never said or done anything to intentionally hurt me. Sure he has scratched me and bit me but he’s a cat. And that’s what cats do. He has always been here for me. Never abandoned me. He may takeoff and be gone for the day, but he always comes home. He has shown me nothing but unconditional love and excepted me for who I am. My male cat is very loving, affectionate, and cuddly, unlike most men I have met. And that is why I believe my cat is the only good man left.

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ExtremeNext · 31-35, F

That made me cry 😢

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@ExtremeNext didn’t mean to make it sound so emotional. It’s just an observation.

ExtremeNext · 31-35, F

@IWantToBreakFree I'm still crying 😭

DiegoWolfe · 36-40

I met a really nice male african grey the other day!

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IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@DiegoWolfe awwww 😍

DiegoWolfe · 36-40

@IWantToBreakFree So two good men left

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@DiegoWolfe yes!! 🙌

saintsong · 41-45, F

My 24 year old son is the same way with his 15 year old cat Mr. Daisy, he's the love of his life!

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@saintsong that’s because animals are better than most people. I’m happy your son has his furry companion.

TheManHimself87 · 36-40, M

My wives would have to disagree with you on that one.

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TheManHimself87 · 36-40, M

@IWantToBreakFree I have a cute friend for your furry boi

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@TheManHimself87 omg 😍😍😍

TheManHimself87 · 36-40, M

@IWantToBreakFree I'll take that as a yes 😁

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

You should get puppies and baby bunnies too.

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife yes!! All the fur babies 😍😍😍

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@IWantToBreakFree 🙂☺️

soulshadow · 36-40, M

I'm glad you found a good man to call your own.

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@soulshadow me too thanks he’s quite a blessing

BohemianBoo · M

I haven't met your cat, but I believe this.

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@BohemianBoo hims a good boi the bestest!!

PoetryNEmotion · F

That is sad that you feel that way. At some point you must release your past and move forward. Perhaps examine the kind of men you are attracted to. Change that. Move forward. Your cat agrees with me. Best of luck.

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion well it’s hard to release your past and move forward when you’re still currently living with an abuser. I’m in a very tough situation. And everyone says oh why don’t you just leave. It’s not that easy. Trying to figure out my way to escape and better myself. I just wanna be alone for a while. Rebuild what has been broken.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@IWantToBreakFree Get a safe escape plan. Contact a women's shelter. Course it is not easy. The abuse did not suddenly happen. You must take responsibility. Then make plsns to be independent. People can help you. Good luck.

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@PoetryNEmotion thanks 🙏

ArtieKat · M

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@ArtieKat

ArtieKat · M

@IWantToBreakFree

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@ArtieKat yes!! gimme gimme gimme!!! 😻😻😻

badminton · 61-69, MVIP

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IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@badminton I would gladly take any one of them 😻😻😻

badminton · 61-69, MVIP

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496sbc · 36-40, M

Thats so sad. 😞. Such a shame 😭😭

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IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@496sbc well if you want to talk about sad then yes, it is sad that every man I’ve ever come in contact with irl has done nothing but abuse, traumatize and hurt me I have extreme CPTSD from it

496sbc · 36-40, M

@IWantToBreakFree see that’s horrible and every gal i have almost tried to date or go with has done the same to me

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@496sbc that’s very unfortunate. I’m really sorry to hear that. Sounds like both you and I are similar in ways. Maybe me a little more jaded, guarded and not trusting than you but idk. Feel free to message me if you want to talk.

smiler2012 · 56-60, M

@IWantToBreakFree 😞what a shame how sad in a way where a feline shows you more respect than family and others

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@smiler2012 nah it’s just shown me that animals are better than most people. Most people are out for their own gain. They’re selfish. Taking whatever they can get to better themselves and they don’t care about anyone else or who they hurt in the process

RuyLopez · 56-60, M

Yeah, but he is a pussy.

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@RuyLopez not as big of a pussy as most men I’ve met. Most men are bigger pussies about love and commitment then my cat has ever been

RuyLopez · 56-60, M

@IWantToBreakFree That is not surprising to hear. I'd much rather play with a pussy anyway. 😉

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@RuyLopez lol 😂

merchant0foldeurope · M

that sounds very sad, iam sorry for you.

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@merchant0foldeurope no need for pity I have my cat(s) and he’s a good man. I also have his sister and she’s a good little girl as well.

Barebum61 · 61-69, M

Will he support you

IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F

@Barebum61 financially I don’t need anyone to support me. I can support myself. And I enjoy supporting my little furry man. But as far as emotional support, he has given me that tremendously

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