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My cat is the only good man left

After 2 abusive narcissistic relationships. Alcoholic, drug addicted abusive parents and stepparent. Being left by my biological father. And multiple other horrible dating experiences with men. I have come to the conclusion that my male cat is the only good man left. He’s never said or done anything to intentionally hurt me. Sure he has scratched me and bit me but he’s a cat. And that’s what cats do. He has always been here for me. Never abandoned me. He may takeoff and be gone for the day, but he always comes home. He has shown me nothing but unconditional love and excepted me for who I am. My male cat is very loving, affectionate, and cuddly, unlike most men I have met. And that is why I believe my cat is the only good man left.
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That is sad that you feel that way. At some point you must release your past and move forward. Perhaps examine the kind of men you are attracted to. Change that. Move forward. Your cat agrees with me. Best of luck.
@PoetryNEmotion well it’s hard to release your past and move forward when you’re still currently living with an abuser. I’m in a very tough situation. And everyone says oh why don’t you just leave. It’s not that easy. Trying to figure out my way to escape and better myself. I just wanna be alone for a while. Rebuild what has been broken.
@DisarrayedNightshade Get a safe escape plan. Contact a women's shelter. Course it is not easy. The abuse did not suddenly happen. You must take responsibility. Then make plsns to be independent. People can help you. Good luck.
@PoetryNEmotion thanks 🙏