My cat is the only good man left

After 2 abusive narcissistic relationships. Alcoholic, drug addicted abusive parents and stepparent. Being left by my biological father. And multiple other horrible dating experiences with men. I have come to the conclusion that my male cat is the only good man left. He’s never said or done anything to intentionally hurt me. Sure he has scratched me and bit me but he’s a cat. And that’s what cats do. He has always been here for me. Never abandoned me. He may takeoff and be gone for the day, but he always comes home. He has shown me nothing but unconditional love and excepted me for who I am. My male cat is very loving, affectionate, and cuddly, unlike most men I have met. And that is why I believe my cat is the only good man left.

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496sbc · 36-40, M

Thats so sad. 😞. Such a shame 😭😭

DisarrayedNightshade · 36-40

@496sbc no need for pity I have my cat(s) and he’s a good man. I also have his sister and she’s a good little girl as well.

496sbc · 36-40, M

@DisarrayedNightshade pitty. I was only saying how sad it is. If u feel i pitty u ok

DisarrayedNightshade · 36-40

@496sbc well if you want to talk about sad then yes, it is sad that every man I’ve ever come in contact with irl has done nothing but abuse, traumatize and hurt me I have extreme CPTSD from it

496sbc · 36-40, M

@DisarrayedNightshade see that’s horrible and every gal i have almost tried to date or go with has done the same to me

DisarrayedNightshade · 36-40

@496sbc that’s very unfortunate. I’m really sorry to hear that. Sounds like both you and I are similar in ways. Maybe me a little more jaded, guarded and not trusting than you but idk. Feel free to message me if you want to talk.