I've never been on a real date. Cause the nervousness and shyness prevented me from asking.

So I've spent my whole life with women who picked me up at a bar or the work place and took me home for years, weeks or half a night. I really don't think I'm living the way I'm supposed to. I'm not complaining, just reflecting on how it could have gone if I was confident

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gandalf1957 · 61-69, M

nice to have been picked up and seduced at the bar or work place though .....

why didn't the fact you were being picked up by women boost your confidence?

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

@gandalf1957 cause some of that take home went on for months and years and I didn't choose them in the first place. I lived with other's needs and wants and expectations and was too insecure to leave or persue other dreams...other than the odd cheating on the side that involved the same scenario, picked by someone else