Fake it. pretend you are a nice guy.

SW-User
Why get over it? It's who you are.
PatKirby · M
I've found it's very much like flipping a switch. Simple, you just get out there and quite frankly don't give a shit. Pretty soon your friends and dates increase and life actually improves. You deserve better, so go out there and get it. Just remember, nice guys finish last.