What makes a person selfish?

Now a days when people be nice, they get taken advantage of...

And if don't be nice, they get called selfish.

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Fishy · 36-40, F

Tbf tho, sometimes selfish people will call others selfish just because they didn't get what they wanted.

I think the term used for that is called projecting?
I dunno, lol

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Fishy Exactly. I don't think just not being "nice" to someone makes other a bad/selfish person. It's not selfish... people don't owe others anything unless they themselves wanted and promised them to.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Fishy I think causing others problems is considered selfish or putting ones needs/desires at expense of others also can be considered selfish.