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Ontheroad · M
Depends upon the definition of unattractive and it varies from person to person. I agree that soem very attractive people can and do become instantly unattractive by their words and actions, but I have personally experienced the opposite.
shinyena · 18-21, F
I totally agree with the first half of your statement but, I do think someone who’s considered unattractive to me (because beauty is typically subjective) can still be attractive because of their personality. If they make me laugh or smile a lot, I’ll immediately be more attracted to them as a person. But, I also do agree with the statement looks matter because I would still subconsciously think twice depending on my preference.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@shinyena i think some people can be past a personality helping them. It's rare but can happen.
TexChik · F
I used to think that, and then had my heart changed a few times . I felt like a peasant in front of royalty after witnessing what those people do . It was humbling to the extreme. Don’t judge a book by its cover!
no matter how beautiful, how ugly, or how average a person might be....... a good personality never hurt.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
If you are a nice person, you are attractive
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Define attractive. If you mean physically attractive, the options are limited but some exist or you wouldn't have make-over artists. If you mean attractive as a whole person, personality and attitude rule supreme.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@dancingtongue Im saying that i know someone who are that awful that their personality couldn't help them even if it was good.
CheekyBadger · M
Depends on who is doing the looking I think. Some people will base attractiveness on personality over looks and others, the opposite.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
I dont know. I think both of those scenarios can happen.
LeopoldBloom · M
I disagree. Personality goes a long way.
Lilymoon · F
I disagree.... personality goes a long way.
Yes they can.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
I don't think this is fully true, but I think it's definitely easier to lose attractiveness through personality than gaining it. So while not impressive, the trend is similar