I asked a guy whether he cooks or whether he expects women to do all the work?

Is it a rude question? Because he once told me that working women manage household activities as well. It's taken as a given. So my impression of him is that he expects women to do all the work.

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Unhinged · 100+

Is he from falakata

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Unhinged He's a conservative guy from India but he has travelled abroad for work. You'd think such fellows would become a bit more broad minded but no - same primitive way of thinking

Convivial · 26-30, F

@solitaire nope, is inculcated in them

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Convivial Yeah cos that's how they are raised. If he does not reply to my message it means he took offence. I've deleted his number. The previous time I thought I was rude I called him and apologized. This time - nope. Just deleted his number.

Convivial · 26-30, F

@solitaire I've met them... They either have maids or mother's...

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Convivial This guy has a morher and sisters and his wife left him in 1.5 months! I wonder why. He claims he treated her well but I wonder what the real truth is

Convivial · 26-30, F

@solitaire according to his life view maybe he did treat her well...

solitaire · 41-45, F

@Convivial Hmm. It was an arranged marriage. Believe me no Indian woman leaves her husband so soon in an arranged marriage setup especially.