Sometimes I wish I wasn't asexual

I'd like to have that spark that makes me want to be with people, I think it adds a lot to life. Like I haven't had sex in nearly 8 years and I'm fine with it, tbh I've been too busy for most of them.

Maybe I have a hormonal imbalance or low T? I dunno. I've turned down sex, just never on my mind really. I enjoy it but I guess I just don't feel the drive to care about it?.

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Miram · 31-35, F

Sexuality is fluid, it can change. I was asexual most of my life, till my very late twenties.

Didn't engage in sex as social behavior either

TryingtoLava

Being asexual is great :) i love it but what you described isnt asexuality mister

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TryingtoLava

@Ryannnnnn

In the end, asexuality is the absence of sexual attraction, not sexual desire.

Well im not asexual either apparently so i guess im just my own thing cuz this is silly

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@TryingtoLava hahaha. Well they're just general terms for highly subjective experiences so you know you best.

SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP

@TryingtoLava Not to bring up a dead thread and also not being rude but it does count as asexuality. Hope you don't think I'm being rude or anything:

https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-asexual

BananaBrown · 41-45, F

I’m not asexual, so I can’t say for sure, but it seems to me like life would be much less complicated that way.

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@BananaBrown It's true, but less exciting and you don't get that intimate connection.

SW-User

Asexual 😼 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

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