Sometimes I wish I wasn't asexual

I'd like to have that spark that makes me want to be with people, I think it adds a lot to life. Like I haven't had sex in nearly 8 years and I'm fine with it, tbh I've been too busy for most of them.

Maybe I have a hormonal imbalance or low T? I dunno. I've turned down sex, just never on my mind really. I enjoy it but I guess I just don't feel the drive to care about it?.

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TryingtoLava

Being asexual is great :) i love it but what you described isnt asexuality mister

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@TryingtoLava I do too most of the time, sometimes I get a little bored with it though 😇

TryingtoLava

@Ryannnnnn thats my point what youre describing isnt asexuality i literally not once in my life have been sexually attracted to a boy see you are in a rut or whatever but youve had sex and exchanged lots of body fluids the thought of even kissing a boy grosses me out sooooo again youre not asexual cuz its nothing you get ‘bored of’ it just is

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@TryingtoLava I'm definitely on the scale anyway, I've always been like this. I think it's different for everyone. It's not even a rut per say, I just don't care? It'd be nice maybe though if I met somebody

TryingtoLava

@Ryannnnnn hahaha theres no scale you ARE or you ARNT and your not so work on yourself instead of using this as an excuse cuz no its not different for everyone

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@TryingtoLava yup there is it's called the ace spectrum. https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-asexual-4584349

TryingtoLava

@Ryannnnnn

In the end, asexuality is the absence of sexual attraction, not sexual desire.

Well im not asexual either apparently so i guess im just my own thing cuz this is silly

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@TryingtoLava hahaha. Well they're just general terms for highly subjective experiences so you know you best.

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

@TryingtoLava Not to bring up a dead thread and also not being rude but it does count as asexuality. Hope you don't think I'm being rude or anything:

https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-asexual