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Are you attracted to smart people or do you see them as geeky? I love smart men but they aren't attracted to me. I guess my IQ is too low for them🫤

I am very attracted to intelligence, as long as humility and kindness are also part of the package. The latter is actually even more important.
Briggett · T
@bijouxbroussard as usual well said!!
@bijouxbroussard You hit the nail on the head dear :)
Smart is attractive, but it's not the only factor. Average will do too, as long as they aren't buying into conspiracy theories.
@pianoplayingsteve I was speaking in general about theories that have been broken down and are still believed widely, like staging the moon landing and overreaction to the Covid pandemic.
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
@NerdyPotato there are many different criticisms to the many different aspects of how covid was handled, which differed by country. In the Middle Eastern country I’m in, they were dead strict with people wearing masks whilst driving on their own in a car, but then they’d go to a restaurant and all eat soup putting their spoons into the same communal bowl and eating from said spoon. I pointed out that this was ridiculous and I was met with a reaction similar to ‘you conspiracy theorist!’
@pianoplayingsteve a great example of how people can be hard to convince, but where you were objectively correct.
Miram · 31-35, F
If I think I am smarter than someone , I would never date them. It feels like a power unbalance.
SW-User
@Miram My guess is most on SW think they're above most IQ wise. Me included.

You, too? Where I lose is in the looks department.
On my old profile, " Intelligence is Sexy" was my trademark group. I've changed a lot since then, and I no longer rely on brains to turn me on. I'm very philosophical and it's amazing when you find someone who vibes on that same frequency, and also understands the depths of your mind.💫
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
@MoonlightLullaby what do you find sexy, now, then?
@pianoplayingsteve Kindness, vulnerability, common sense, empathy, humbleness to name a few. I now find many people that claim intelligence lack in those departments and are often very ego driven.
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
@MoonlightLullaby isnt 'common sense' merely a set of.prejudices normalised during childhood? But no i find the same thing. I always give the benefit of the doubt and assume the other person is intelligent, but then they completely undermine common sense and then call me stupid in the process. I remember that quote from St Anthony the Great "A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him, saying, 'You are mad; you are not like us."
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
I prefer someone with some intelligence
SW-User
Yes. I often do see smart people as geeky and that's great. I'm like that too. Intelligence is attractive, and so is geekiness. ☺️
SW-User
How do you know if they are even smart though?
Laralemonsqueeze · 36-40, F
@SW-User They do brainy genius things☹️
SW-User
@Laralemonsqueeze i wash clothes and like math...is that smart enough?
Laralemonsqueeze · 36-40, F
@SW-User yeah, a bit😃
WillaKissing · 56-60
I like intelligent women and geeky women. It is the woman's personality that I click with or not.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I couldn’t be with someone long term if I didn’t feel I could learn from them.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
if you aren't on the same level as me or smarter I don't want it
One the guys I dated was a physicist.
That's an affirmative ;)
Whodunnit · M
IQ doesn't matter one iota...

Well, as long as you've got big boobs 🤔
scrood · 31-35
I don't seek them out but they can be attractive
Curiosity13 · 51-55, M
I'm attracted to all kinds
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
Its because you habe no picture

 
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