Are you attracted to smart people or do you see them as geeky? I love smart men but they aren't attracted to me. I guess my IQ is too low for them🫤
36-40, F
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On my old profile, " Intelligence is Sexy" was my trademark group. I've changed a lot since then, and I no longer rely on brains to turn me on. I'm very philosophical and it's amazing when you find someone who vibes on that same frequency, and also understands the depths of your mind.💫
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
@MoonlightLullaby what do you find sexy, now, then?
@pianoplayingsteve Kindness, vulnerability, common sense, empathy, humbleness to name a few. I now find many people that claim intelligence lack in those departments and are often very ego driven.
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
@MoonlightLullaby isnt 'common sense' merely a set of.prejudices normalised during childhood? But no i find the same thing. I always give the benefit of the doubt and assume the other person is intelligent, but then they completely undermine common sense and then call me stupid in the process. I remember that quote from St Anthony the Great "A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him, saying, 'You are mad; you are not like us."