Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
"Past performance is not indicative of future results." I think that also is true as it depends on whether or not they get counseling or if something changes physiologically. You always want to hope that the cheater/alcoholic/abuser/ affectionless will change but maybe, " the tiger cannot change its' stripes.". Do you want to wait and see? Are you tied/chained to them with an impossible vow? YOLO.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Tastyfrzz Past performance is indicative of future results. Why wouldn’t it be ? People, by and large, fall back on what they think works or is easy. They change, with help, only when to not is to risk losing something dear to them.
bijouxbroussard · F
With some people, a lot of people perhaps, it is true. Generally the best predictor of future behavior is one’s past actions.
However, it’s still a choice, and people have been known to change behaviors that risk jeopardizing a relationship they value, even if they need to get counseling.
However, it’s still a choice, and people have been known to change behaviors that risk jeopardizing a relationship they value, even if they need to get counseling.
exexec · 70-79, C
There are exceptions. My girlfriend cheated on me a lot in college, but once we became engaged, she never cheated again.
pdockal · 56-60, M
Just have to find the right person
SteelHands · 61-69, M
One will, one won't. Irony of love.