I guess once a cheater...

Always a cheater is a real thing. It's always dumb simple sayings that are true. It's not really dumb I'm just mad at myself for being naive.

I don't care, I don't care, I still believe in love damnit!

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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

"Past performance is not indicative of future results." I think that also is true as it depends on whether or not they get counseling or if something changes physiologically. You always want to hope that the cheater/alcoholic/abuser/ affectionless will change but maybe, " the tiger cannot change its' stripes.". Do you want to wait and see? Are you tied/chained to them with an impossible vow? YOLO.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Tastyfrzz Past performance is indicative of future results. Why wouldn’t it be ? People, by and large, fall back on what they think works or is easy. They change, with help, only when to not is to risk losing something dear to them.