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People who constantly complain without making any plans to resolve the situation piss me off

Some people like to feel they are a martyr to a cruel world
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Punxi · F Best Comment
In absence of a problem, some simply have no idea who they are.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
We're all stuck in this cruel world..I see people that embrace it/perpetuate it, and people who have the guts to say when things are wrong.

Most of the time there is no solution because too many people go with the fake flow.

But I don't put down anyone's pain. For starters I don't understand what they've been through or how they view things. I understand my own frustration and the biggest part is people who consistently act like everything is okay and easy to cope with even when it's not for everyone. That is a privilege. Even my shit situation is a privilege.

We're all on our way, whichever way that is. There's no shame (for me) in pointing out and embracing the suck. Sometimes that is our only way of getting through it.
Younameit · F
As someone who is the problem solver / fixer type , that irritates me so much. Like, there are a million things you could do to get out of that situation, please at least do one of them. But I understand that sometimes mental health issues are involved and not everything is black and white. But generally speaking, I’m with you on this.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I think that people just feel stuck sometimes. You never know what else they may be going through. So I try to show patience and compassion.
Omg 100% when it's chronic
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Unless you have to listen to them because you're stuck in one room why would you care? It's their problem not yours.
Miram · 31-35, F
True. It is horrible.

And I will continue doing it. I like making you angry.
@Miram Just you keep writing those lovely not poems and we will be good!
Miram · 31-35, F
@TheDeathOCuHullainn I will try.

My mother used to do this to me. She then died due to diabetes complications despite the fact that I did everything that I could possibly do, even as a professional, to stop that from happening. She had options right at her feet.

She just didn't want to live.

And for the past few years I had to hear that. All of her complaints and then be made to do nothing.

You get angry because of the helplessness. You don't like seeing people choose to suffer. People you love.

I get that.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
It’s especially frustrating when they actually do have the means to change things.
So, er, what will you do about it? 😜
DayattheBeach · 36-40, F
Or worse, they have nothing good to say about those who do take action.
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FreeorLonely · 51-55, F
Same, so annoying, go whine somewhere else. 🙄
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MethDozer · M
Yeah, it annoys the pias out of me too when instead of changing it they choose to just spread their misery around.

 
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