Back to normal routine is hard

Going back to school when everything feels so different is honestly really hard. I’m trying to just get on with things and act normal, but it’s not that simple. Everyone else is carrying on with their lives and I’m just here feeling like everything is a bit pointless now.

I don’t really know how I’m meant to just go back to normal when nothing feels normal anymore.

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joggie · 41-45, M

The best doctor in the world is Time, time heals every wound. Your healing time is approaching fast. Just a little patience and you'll get over it. And a time will come when you will forget all of these miserable moments. Just focus on your life, don't stay alone, keep doing something positive, and never sit idle. Love

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

I lost my Dad when I was 13. It's hard. I dreaded talking about it to my classmates.

HaileyC · 18-21

Your normal has changed and I think it’s just going to take time for you get used to it. I feel so bad for you. 💙

MrsRachelEvans · 31-35, F

I hope you can find solace sweetie.

Panamared · 70-79, M

One day at a time, one step at a time

Revanchist · 31-35, M

I’m sorry for your loss, it’s hard to go back to normal, it takes a long time. And even when we heal not everyone feels 100%. All you can do is focus on yourself and your loved ones. Also you don’t need to act normal, don’t worry about anyone’s expectations of you, it’s ok to be sad, and that is perfectly normal for grieving people. Take care..

Carysoflife · F

@Revanchist thank you

Convivial · 26-30, F

Change is the only constant in life.... The ability to let go and move on is one of the hardest lessons to learn

ineedadrink · 56-60, M

Have you had a chance to talk to a therapist yet? I know some people who have had good outcomes by talking and getting perspective from a good therapist. But in any case, be gentle with yourself.

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