If you've come from a hard background, not shown love or regard for other people..
is your behaviour in society really your fault or do you not know any different?
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Adogslife · 61-69, M
“Fault” might not be the correct word, but we always have choices. No matter what has been done to you, you have a choice how you choose to treat others.
Just because love wasn’t present in your upbringing doesn’t mean you can’t be kind to others while you ultimately seek the love you yearn for and deserve.
Yes, the pain can be hard to deal with but you have to bring it inward and reflect on the cause, not push it outward toward others. I found reading about self actualization to be helpful. Therapy can be helpful too. Diet, exercise and sunshine are extremely helpful and have great short term rewards that yield long term successes as well.
It takes time, but you have to just put one foot in front of the other every day keeping your goals in mind. Eventually you’ll look back and see how much you’ve accomplished.
Just because love wasn’t present in your upbringing doesn’t mean you can’t be kind to others while you ultimately seek the love you yearn for and deserve.
Yes, the pain can be hard to deal with but you have to bring it inward and reflect on the cause, not push it outward toward others. I found reading about self actualization to be helpful. Therapy can be helpful too. Diet, exercise and sunshine are extremely helpful and have great short term rewards that yield long term successes as well.
It takes time, but you have to just put one foot in front of the other every day keeping your goals in mind. Eventually you’ll look back and see how much you’ve accomplished.