Why is it so hard?

So, silent folks are the best. I agree! Most monks get blessed with wisdom beyond human understanding after years of prayers and meditation.🙏

That's me

Those who test their partners should not be in relationships to begin with. I left a gf years ago because she dared to test me using another woman as bait, which my ex obviously forgot that she introduced me to her a few months before as her cousin. When the other woman insisted she didn't know my ex I knew it was a set up and then told her to tell her cousin that it was over.