Is this confusing?

@MarbleMarvel sometimes you gotta go with what your gut is telling you. Sometimes your heart already knows but your brain doesn't wanna have to accept it. Oftentimes, accepting it is harder than feeling it.

I believe if you genuinely appreciate someone, you naturally wanna reciprocate that. If he had no desire to reciprocate even when you worked for it then that says a lot.
You shouldn't have to work for it though 🖤 you should give love because you want to & you deserve a partner who wants to too.

Time heals. Maybe you're grieving more over the time wasted & the love that also went to waste 😮‍💨 it's never easy when you truly cared.

@ChiefJustWalks you are so right. And such a sweetheart. Thank you 🖤

I guess somewhere along the way I completely forgot that I deserved to feel loved too. Worrying about him. Damnit.

@MarbleMarvel no problem 🤗 I just hope all the love you gave, comes back to you from someone much more deserving of your time

@SatanBurger He's history now. I just faded away.

He sounds high maintenance? I felt he was so fickle. It was always about his mood and making him happy.

@MarbleMarvel I'm happy you're away from him. Let's put it this way, the time you spend with him is the time you can spend with people who appreciate your time and effort. It keeps you from finding better.

But yeah, I do feel like he's high maintenance quite a bit. Demands way too much and gives very little, is never pleased.

Life's too short.

@SatanBurger So true. I have to do some repairs on my heart.

I felt like I wasn't enough and I bet he loved me trying so hard. I wasted my time.

Thank you 🖤

@NewBeginnings7790 Yes 😔 it's so stressful and confusing. Like they want to keep you in a loop even though they don't really want you...

@MarbleMarvel yup… and a person can only wait so long to feel the feeling being mutually reciprocated

@NewBeginnings7790 thank you 🖤

@Frostcloud This is you rolling your eyes

@Frostcloud no I'm not. We have a tendency to gravitate towards each other over and over though. It's good for about a week then he's "overwhelmed" because I'm trying to talk to him. I couldn't keep doing it.

@MarbleMarvel well good riddance. at the end of day take peace knowing you did everything you could. i dont understand people like that at all

@Gibbon Yes it was kinda crushing my soul. I couldn't figure out his motivation. I couldn't make him happy. I had to give up.

@MarbleMarvel You're better off without dealing with that mentality.

@pripyatamusementpark I def don't want what he wants 😂 I know I want someone to grow with. I want communication. Intimacy. He is none of those.

Thank you for being so sweet 🖤

@MarbleMarvel If he's not willing to do the hard inner work to give you what you need then he needs to be on his wsy so that you have a chance to find that person for you ....

No problem! We should be lifting each other up not knocking each other down .

@Lilymoon every time you post this it cracks me up SO HARD 🤣🤣

It's the truth though 🖤

@MarbleMarvel hehe well it is the truth! You deserve better

@WeebLord same Jackie, same

@Blondily I was loyal to him because we were together when my mom passed and his dad passed. At one time he was there for me. I don't know what happened with him. He changed and that's fine but he didn't want to grow together.