sometimes they don't want connection but they're just curious about you, once they're questions about you are answered theyll have no interest just no

need , no will to approach you then tht silence so you see never answer every question, you've not asked, you don't know anything then why let them know who is you lol just ghost eachother, evrythng should be mutual, it's justice, why only one side will feel th pain >>×××

you know me? no!
who's behind this online persona
guess?? A ghost/ soul less creatures absolutely no human[b][/b]

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SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

While I do not know you, I would ask, what do you do to keep the connection alive? You sit there passively and wait for the other person to do all the heavy lifting?

It's a conversation, it has ebb and flow. Both sides need to work to keep it going.

drair · 100+, F

@SumKindaMunster it actually depends on who started the conversation
Right?
If I started a conversation which I rarely do now I always reach out n check on to keep it alive as long possible
I've more such examples
But when it's I've not started I can't decide
I understand they can end whenver they wish but when someone just leaves abruptly after just asking n getting to know all your personal infos I feel lik I've done some mistakes in m response
As if I'm horrible
Can't explain
Lik it's not a necessary etiquette to give a notice but yh I'm sorry

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

@drair [quote] it actually depends on who started the conversation
Right?[/quote]

You think? I think if there is a connection, both sides have a duty to keep it going. I'm not sure having these conditions is beneficial to you.

[quote]I understand they can end whenver they wish but when someone just leaves abruptly after just asking n getting to know all your personal infos I feel lik I've done some mistakes in m response
As if I'm horrible[/quote]

I totally understand that. It could definitely feel that way, like you did something wrong. But ya never know what's going down on their end. You shouldn't assume its a judgement on your character or ability to carry a conversation.

It would be nice to know what happened. To have closure. But that doesn't always happen and I would caution you in assuming it has anything to do with you...

drair · 100+, F

@SumKindaMunster exactly for a long time I thought it's duty of both
But then I saw you can't always keep up with everyone when with time they just let go
You'll not understand them
Can't even get a chance to ask
So I think it was their purpose to approach m
They have something in mind
Succeeded prolly left
That's it

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@drair Time is a funny thing, especially when you can't see what another is doing, or their life. It's closing in on 6am here, not sure what time it is for you, and we are but strangers, but what I have in mind is possibly a friend? This is my chance to ask. Part of it is me curious, nothing wrong there, and you expressed things that caught my curiosities.... all about questions with connection, how they happen.

I guess I like inquisitive and curious minds?

drair · 100+, F

@thewindupbirdchronicles it's 3:34pm here
It's raining like crazy here
Heavy lighting
So can't go out
Just stuck at home with sw and study ^•^

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@drair ^•^ Focus on that study and in my opinion you are doing fine.

We just went through a month of storms,
heavy rains in a flash and lightening ripping apart the sky

What are you studying?

drair · 100+, F

@thewindupbirdchronicles I've some exams this Sunday so