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Do I come across as boring on here?

A couple of people recently said that I was (one of them called me a boring loser, which was especially nice.)
It kinda seemed to stem from me being a virgin still and the fact that I enjoy going to church.
I don’t want to be boring lol!

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Boeing · 36-40

you're not boring, you're an interesting guy to me, reflecting, living, trying to figure Life in creative ways!

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Boeing · 36-40

@Strongtea any updates on any martial arts we were discussing you would get to try..?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

So, I started kickboxing a while ago, it’s really fun and interesting but hard and I keep getting mixed up lol! I have a class tonight! @Boeing

Boeing · 36-40

@Strongtea oh wow well done.. it's great, martial arts are a great way to work with your body but also spirit and mind, lots of pride and ego checking and knowing thyself ;) stay strong tea lol

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

Don't let anyone tear you down. Your a good bloke.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Hey thanks! 😊@Thevy29

TheHammer · M

Didn't I read you were married?

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TheHammer · M

@Strongtea
I understand. Hey. Whatever works for you guys. But sometimes the right moment never comes, you have to make it happen. I see like going to Disneyland and sit around waiting for the right time to ride. Before you know, it's late and you have to get going.
But like I said. Whatever works for you guys. Good luck my friend

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I know, I just don’t want to push her into doing things she doesn’t want too. It’s ok though, I like it how it is. @TheHammer

TheHammer · M

@Strongtea
I don't understand but tjen again I don't have to. As lomg as you're happy

class · F

God's people act on faith without works is dead its fun to have inner peace strength from within that you can only do so much yet living life without the customs of the world only what God has said giving no one reason to hate you will find their own projections onto you they just look outwardly not invested into you as a person which is more about sustanance. If it doesnt help you they arent along with your goals unless your values are getting stronger by learning you do not need them.if they're saying you're a boring loser, they're trying to provoke a reaction, and it's probably not one they are getting cause thats not really how people work, taking time to work with them is valued.

Not sure this helps. Lemme know.

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Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yeah, I do worry slightly that my posts can often be about similar/same topics (I suppose I talk a lot about things I’ve done wrong/things I worry about) and maybe I come across a bit negative/stuck up on here.
I have posted some positive/happy stuff but I got accused of showing off lol! 😩🙄😂@class

class · F

@Strongtea it seems they want positive superficial entertainment, like most do on the internet. They may not understand your growth from being mean to how you are now they may not understand your intention on similar worlds, the idea is to share and recieve support you may just find it in a small group of friends.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thanks so much for that, I think I should focus on the people I’ve become friends with rather than worrying about the people who don’t like me/get me. I kinda think you have picked up n my journey/why I talk about the things I do- Thankyou for that, it means a lot. @class

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Strongtea · 22-25, M

Haha! Ok, I’ll do that! Maybe. 😜@romell

Ann99 · 41-45, F

Just be yourself there’s nothing wrong with that People will always have something to say so don’t let their opinions define you

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thankyou, I know you’re right, but I do try to people please and be interesting/entertaining and it hurts if people don’t like me. I do need to relax and be me though. @Ann99

GoFish · 41-45, F

were they mean girls? there's worse things than being boring even if you were ..

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I thought they were nice, but I suppose they must have been a little bit mean. I suppose I would rather be boring than mean, I’ve bean a mean person before and it didn’t get me anywhere. @GoFish

MrSmartyPants · 46-50, M

I get that sometimes, it's the no one cares gambit, don't be bothered by it, consider the source, as they say, what is boring to them, is what is usually what is decent, and traits a lesser and more dumb society has lost, they see it and feel the need to mock etc.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Hey thanks for that. 😊@MrSmartyPants

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