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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Only to the degree you are an independent thinker or a follower, imho. I remember in high school the boy who lived across he street who was two years ahead of me, far more mature and confident than I, was one of the first to wear cashmere short sleeve sweater shirts when they first came out for men. He caught all sorts of flack about being a homo -- long before gay became a term -- and brushed it off by saying "wait a couple of weeks and you all will be wearing them". Well, I never did, but he was largely correct and as soon as it became the in thing to do he stopped wearing his.