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LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Anyone can form a relationship. The question is, can it be maintained? That answer is dependent on the determination and willingness each person has to compromise, communicate, pick up the slack, and make it work. Even with all that, we are not guaranteed anything.
UpForItNow · 22-25, F
@LadyBronte Yes this puts it well, I've often thought that the primary motivation has to be to have a relationship and make it work, and not be a matter of the particular individual sought. The one accepted into the role is the one who can make it work, day to day,.just like in staff selection.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@UpForItNow Exactly. To add to it - It cannot be an uneven yoke. No matter how much one wants it and how hard and honestly that one works for it, if the other is a selfish, lazy, lying pig, there is no hope.