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I was talking to two friends recently who mentioned they rarely initiates sex with their husband, and it got me thinking about different approaches to sexual frequency and dynamics in relationships. I can only imagine their husbands sexual frustration just based off of my husband sexual needs. One of them only have sex once a week, while the other won't engage in sex at all. I'm sure there are other dynamics at play in their relationship, which they did not disclosed.

I shared to them that I have a "Free Use", where I've given him permission to initiate sex whenever he wants, even when I'm busy or asleep. I want to ensure that I give him all the sex he needs before I get to that stage in my life that can go down hill. I also realized how much it turned me on to feel completely desired by him, knowing that he finds me irresistible regardless of what I'm doing.

For us, this has been incredibly fulfilling, and has made our relationship that much stronger - I love feeling that my body is always available to him, and he loves the freedom to express his sexual desire spontaneously. I love being his fuck toy.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Very interesting approach. When I've been in relationships (more than 10 yrs ago now) I was always really hesitant to initiate intimacy, especially with my second ex.

I've become very scared and frightened of sex and intimacy now so your experience is at the complete opposite end of the spectrum to mine.

However I like that you have a really positive mutual approach to sex with your partner.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
My husband and I had the same understanding. I think it keeps love alive 🙂
DarkRoast · 46-50, F
My wife hasnt had any nterest in sex in many years. There are no words to describe my level of frustration.
exexec · 70-79, C
I suppose we had a bit of a "free use" approach, although my wife often initiated sex. Now in our older years, it is just when we mutually agree to have sex about twice a month.
Northwest · M
Sounds great in theory, but in my case, if I feel that it's "free use" as opposed "hell yes", it's limp time.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
lol, is been 6 months for me. No use.

 
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