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How many times have you had sex ? How many of those times were actually enjoyable ?

I know plenty of sex hasn't been enjoyable, but as for how many times I can't say. It's kinda funny to try and think about how many orgasms one's had in life. Are you still a New Cummer to sex and sexuality? I consider myself to be just moderately experienced and skilled. I'm bi btw.

To add more fun, how many times with the opposite sex, how many times with the same sex, and how many times with both sexes (ie. with m/f)? Which do you prefer?

Maybe instead of step counters and fitness trackers, we should have orgasm trackers that stay with us through adult life and data-log our cummings and goings on the merry-go-round of rumpy pumpy.
TexChik · F
How many times have I had sex? A lot! My PTSD has made me hypersexual. My hubby is hypersexual. We are a match made in heaven. He's kinky, I love it. Probably 95% of the time our sex is enjoyable, though I have no choice but to O, he sees to that. We fit like a hand and a glove. We both were athletes; we are both very active and fit; we both have the same preference about body hair (we don't like it); We each are still very much in love and attracted to the other, and we need each other constantly. Not just sexually. He was experienced when we met, I was a virgin. He has been the only man I have known, and I never refuse him. For some reason that last on really blew his mind. He also knows it's a gift of love and he never forgets to remind that he knows that and how much it means to him. Whatever it is we have, I feel blessed to be a part of it and, it works!
@TexChik 💯
Many time I am afraid to let myself go , my orgasms can become a deluge and it can be embarrassing! 🤥
Docdon23 · 56-60, M
@SarawithouttheH Your pleasure and expression of it should never be embarrassing--it should be celebrated!
SarahB · 36-40, F
Hard to say. Most times were enjoyable but when I have been with other women it had been incredible every time.

Sometimes masturbating is more enjoyable than sex
With guys zero. With women, most all of the time. I was slow learning I’m gay not bi.
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@DarkHeaven Oh I should have divided it up like that hey. what a good idea!
@butterflybaby75 I think a lot of women (especially straight ones) don’t know how, because everything is so focused on the guy, his ejaculation, and penetration which is nothing for us compared to clit stimulation. With a girl, it’s different. You are both focused on each other, so female orgasm is the point not a maybe maybe not kind of thing.
ninjavu · 51-55, M
How many times?: No idea.

How many enjoyable?: Most, but not all. And even then, some were amazing and some were good, but just OK.

How many times with the opposite sex?: Most.

How many times with the same sex?: Not many, but a few, almost all in group scenarios.

Which do I prefer?: Opposite sex.

You're welcome. :) Where do I go to pick up my orgasm tracker? 🤔
This explains my journey.

https://similarworlds.com/attraction/lesbian/3761800-My-journey-has-been-long-unclear-and-often-very

And this answers my skill level. I’m very proficient. And there are very few like me.

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/3954754-A-Guide-to-Fingering-and-or-Oral-Play
let me go count the jellybeans in our jar and I'll let you know how many times this month
KatyO83 · 36-40, F
Orgasm tracker lmao!

Really couldn't even estimate some of those numbers.
daddybloke · 41-45, M
wow what question not sure how many times i've ha sex but i did have an extremely high sex drive late teens to 40 so many times i suppose i cant think of any time i never enjoyed or cum i have been with guys a fair bit, but girls mainly girls i like best but guys win for oral
Too many times to count. Not in a bragging way. Just when you first get married, no matter how much it tapers off, you have a lot of sex. All sex, for me anyway, is enjoyable to a degree.
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@JackJames I found sex after getting married was lacklustre not all bells and whistles like it's painted to be. Still good though. Once the ceremonial 'voodoo' wears off reality sets in because the gloss isn't shiny any more, but you have to work at relationships. They aren't a free ride. Now I treat sex as a gift because life is so much more than it alone. Sex is a miniscule part of life.
@butterflybaby75 sometimes it does become formulaic. Like you have to do it because you’re married. It is hard to keep it new. Keeping the spontaneity there.
Crimsonpetal · 46-50, F
Far too many to count 😂
Docdon23 · 56-60, M
I have no idea how many times i have had sex, but honestly, every one of them was enjoyable. Now, some may have been better than others, but i never remember being disappointed.
Strike30 · M
Times sex: Dont know but to little.

Opposite sex and same sex sex was fun. Sadly not had the chance with both sexes at the same time.

Love them both, both have their pro's and cons
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
It's funny because it's impossible for me to even estimate haha
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@DarkHeaven I've been in the same relationship for the last 15 years. :P I've been quite lucky.

Edit: but yes, was way easier to count before my current relationship lol
@Turtlepower woah. 15 years. Congratulations. Two for us and engaged and looking to be married.
@Turtlepower I can’t wait to be her wife.
exexec · 61-69, C
Too many to count, all with my wife, all enjoyable. My wife says, "You don't need to know how many, most were enjoyable except the first and a few in college."
GerOttman · 61-69, M
As a guy pretty much all the times have been good I could work out a ranking system given time but I'd have to look back through my records.
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
Quite a few in early times . When it went bad , was better to stop . 🤔 Once with same ☺
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
wife stop having sex with me but have been enjoying bi for some time ,, now
SolGryn · 26-30, M
To many times. Have i enjoyed it? Not in a long time
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
Takes out scientific calculator
crystalkid · 51-55, T
I’ve lost count on both
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
every time and alot
Coffeequilt · 51-55, F
A lot; and some

 
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