How many times have you had sex ? How many of those times were actually enjoyable ?

I know plenty of sex hasn't been enjoyable, but as for how many times I can't say. It's kinda funny to try and think about how many orgasms one's had in life. Are you still a New Cummer to sex and sexuality? I consider myself to be just moderately experienced and skilled. I'm bi btw.

To add more fun, how many times with the opposite sex, how many times with the same sex, and how many times with both sexes (ie. with m/f)? Which do you prefer?

Maybe instead of step counters and fitness trackers, we should have orgasm trackers that stay with us through adult life and data-log our cummings and goings on the merry-go-round of rumpy pumpy.

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JackJames · M

Too many times to count. Not in a bragging way. Just when you first get married, no matter how much it tapers off, you have a lot of sex. All sex, for me anyway, is enjoyable to a degree.

butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F

@JackJames I found sex after getting married was lacklustre not all bells and whistles like it's painted to be. Still good though. Once the ceremonial 'voodoo' wears off reality sets in because the gloss isn't shiny any more, but you have to work at relationships. They aren't a free ride. Now I treat sex as a gift because life is so much more than it alone. Sex is a miniscule part of life.

JackJames · M

@butterflybaby75 sometimes it does become formulaic. Like you have to do it because you’re married. It is hard to keep it new. Keeping the spontaneity there.