Had an orgasm this morning now im totally crashed for the whole day

got no energy or stamina to do anything since. Complete ruin of day. Why is sexual excitement crashing my ability to face the rest of the day? This is a reason why i dont find sex a desirable thing like everyone tries to make out it is and if i was in a relationship i'd be useless.

All i've wanted to do is go into a darkened room to sleep all day.

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Matt85 · 41-45, M

When I feel like that...And it's been a while now, I think about the chorus of this song:

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"What happens when you lose everything? You just start again, you start allover again"

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Matt85 usually I just feel very low for about a day and lose interest in trying to keep motivated

Matt85 · 41-45, M

@zonavar68 Yeah, I know how you feel. Just remember, pretty much everyone does it... And you did well for restraining aslong as you did. I don't know if you're religious but I have found that praying about it helps me to not do it when I feel tempted.

It might help if you do something to entertain yourself, a film or a book or something.

SW-User

I think there's a whole semen retention movement with the idea of men resisting ejaculation and thereby staying at higher levels of energy. I'm not in a relationship and almost never do ... the other thing ... so I guess I'm within the movement almost accidentally lol!

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@SW-User I'm not either. Fed up trying to learn how to safely let my guard down in case the right person comes along

SW-User

@zonavar68 Mmm. I have major trust issues too and gave up a long time ago in that way.

Docdon23 · M

two suggestions--orgasm at night...or learn tantra and semen retention and learn to have full body orgasms without ejaculating. I do that every day and have more energy and pleasure than ever before.

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