My sexuality

In my experience, I felt the same way about getting close to a guy or kissing a guy, or even cuddling. It wasn’t until I got in a long term relationship with my current boyfriend that I got used to those things. It took a while, but slowly I let go of the judgements I had towards intimacy with a guy. I hadn’t even kissed a guy until him. I’d slept with them though. He enjoyed kissing too much for me to get away with not trying it and I found it to be exactly the same as kissing a woman.
Try a relationship with one and you will learn a lot more about your sexuality. I don’t know how many things I’ve changed my beliefs about since being in my current relationship. It’s been life changing.

being bisexual doesn't mean it's a 50/50 split. you can like one over the other or only be interested in certain aspects. as long as you're having fun then it's all good. :D

You mightbe bi-sexual and there's nothing wrong with that! I would say just keep exploring and see what you really like the best! I wish you the best!!!

I kinda feel the same, I like women in general the female body is pretty and artistic and attractive but 9/10 times I can't really see myself in a full commitmenting relationship with a woman.

I don't know if I am being unreasonable or picky, my father is heavily religious person and he incarved homophobia and transphobia in my skull since childhood all the way to my teens (also racism but that's a topic for a different conversation)

It was confusing journey to figure out my sexuality and I am still not very sure what I am exactly into.

@Ridergood234 A lot of the uncertainty is most likely age related. I doubt a man who is in the 31-35 age range could be confused as to his preferences. A teen or young adult might be attracted to a guy more than to a woman because it might seem that he has more in common with a guy than with a woman. After all, they can go on adventures together and share the same interests without all of the drama that happens in a heterosexual relationship. But, over time, the guy could find a heterosexual relationship more desirable and satisfying.

As you experience more personal relationships with people you will eventually find one that will meet most of your needs. And when that day arrives, be happy for yourself that you have finally found someone you can freely love and who loves you in return.

If you got sick and were dying, would that person be there for you and give you aid and comfort? If you had financial troubles would that person help you to recover? And would you do the same things for that person? Those are some of the things that really matter in relationships.

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I understand your confusion and have been there. Not long ago I realized that I have a strong attraction to both genders and that is actually a wonderful thing. I am finally being who I am (at least in private) and feeling comfortable with it.

I don't think there are any easy answers regarding what you should do or who you should do it with. I think it comes down to being true to yourself.

Just be yourself and enjoy being with people that make you feel good. If it goes beyond friendship then it may be a benefit. Sex and gender should be irrelevant when it comes to attraction.

So I can totally relate. I'm really attracted to women. But it really excites me to think of receiving anal. I did have gay sex with a man who I was never attracted to. I found it when I was in doggy style. I could just close my eyes and enjoy the sensations.

Honestly, I know nothing of these things. What I do know, for sure, is be true to you. Whatever that means. Without it, you will fall down the rabbit hole. Best wishes, my friend. :)

I was kinda puzzled by my sexuality for a long time and still am a little bit.
I love women, everything about them makes sense to me.
I love their bodies and their personalities and I want them in my life.
The first time I sucked a guy thought I was hooked. I really enjoyed it and still do though it’s been a long time since I’ve done it. But as far as relationships and romance I don’t see myself ever having that with a man.
Those feelings are exclusively for women.
I don’t want intimacy with men , I don’t kiss them or except anal. I just like sucking cock once in a while.
I’ve let women peg me with strapons but I never let a guy do me like that. The thought doesn’t turn me on.
It’s weird.

Sex is another thing? A bj is oral sex. You don’t have to have anal to be gay

I think if you're not real attracted to a gender, you might be a lot more picky when it comes to dating someone from that group. Like in your case you're probably not big into men so a man would have to really stand out before you would be attracted.

It's something I'm still trying to figure out as well. Kind of depends on the day for me what I'm attracted to and find sexy. 🤔 I haven't explored it as deeply as I would like. :)

well start slow with men tell them your new and what you want to try ,, and hope they will not be pushed off by your honesty ,,, only do what is comfortable for you ,,,

Kissing is far more related to who you are attracted to than a hand job. I’d never kiss a guy on the lips.

Turn off light & suck dick

just explore and try it all. the best way to learn what you like and what not

You have a penis , you are a man

This is pretty common -- many mostly straight men are only interested in hj or bj.