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Have u ever questioned your sexuality

Yes for a few years. I went from straight to bi curious and now just bi. All those labels don't really mean anything though just be who you are and do whatever makes you happy.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether I completely agree
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anoderod55 · 61-69, M
@silkydrawers ❤️🤗
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@silkydrawers totally agree with you, although I have a very feminine side which I am quite comfortable with I would not do away with my dick it is part of who I am.
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deadteddy · 26-30, F
Yep , but I don’t think I could ever be romantically involved with a girl
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Not really. It was clear from a young age that I was attracted to other guys. I just went through a period of really not wanting it to be true and hoping I would be straight some day. Didn’t end up happening 😑
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Never. I know that it's advantageous to be straight, and I can live with being imperfect.
ReneeT · 61-69, M
A few times. But I've never explored it any further than here
I held back a lot, then I found myself and my flower bloomed.
Not really. I mean I found myself turning things over in my head when I realized I find some trans women and non binary folks attractive too. That didn't last long when I realized it changed nothing for me and I don't give a shit what others think. If someone wants to call me bi because I am attracted to a trans woman or a non binary person that is their issue, not mine.
Fullmetal · 46-50, M
I'm as straight as the pole your momma dances on....😉
@Fullmetal You’re so straight, your house doesn’t even have a back door!
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
What does 'sexuality' mean?

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Preferences in other people for sex (ie. guy likes women and men or just women, or isn't sure or chops/changes) or whether a person is homo/homer/hetero/metro/demi/pan/sapio/etc.

I'm a man and I like women but I've always wanted to experience being with m/f couples (and maybe f/f couples) though I know none of that can ever really happen because of my fears about sex, relationships, and dating.

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Or one's own gender identity questioning.

i'm a man but sometimes wish I wasn't, but it's unchangable as it would destroy my 'identity' so I don't worry about it. As a woman I could have relationships with other women far more successfully that I can as a man, but it's in the realm of unicorning which I know is impossible.
kutee · T
@zonavar68 it means do you fancy women or men simple really
fakable · T
the answer could be simple. hormonal effects on brain activity.

if you go into the realm of psychology and sociology, you will get lost and find no answers.

what a person thinks about their sexuality is unimportant.

sexuality depends on your environment. sexuality can be spontaneous and volatile.
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
Yes, In high school I had a weird gay dream about kissing my male teacher that freaked me out and made me overthink my sexuality for a couple of weeks before realizing it was just a meaningless dream.
kutee · T
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@Rolexeo my exploration of bisexuality came from a supportive str8 but kinky relationship with my ex. She and I had a healthy sexual relationship that grew. . Please read my story here.
https://similarworlds.com/lgbtq/bisexual/6943-My-exploration-began-with-a-healthy-interest-in
No. I’ve been clear on my sexuality since age 7. I knew I liked girls and also what kind of girls.
In my teenage years I had a few moments of doubts
Convivial · 26-30, F
Nope... It's just there
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Yes....and I’ve identified as straight until my mid 20s, gay until I was 30, bisexual until recently and now identify as gay.
A lot of questioning and analysis have led me to change how I see myself several times over my lifetime.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
Yes, when I was like 12-16
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
No, it isn't something you have to think about. You'll know if something turns you on or not. People that "explore" their sexuality are typically in denial.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@Rolexeo I disagree. My exploration was helpful to my understanding
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
@biandlargeny why did you? And what did you discover?
plasticpants02 · 61-69, M
Definitely.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
Define 'sexuality' in this context... Your preferences in other people? Yourself (whether you feel your gender is wrong)? Whether you are hetero/homo/metro/pan/demi/sapio/multi/etc.?
thepropulsivepanda · 31-35, M
Yup. Had my first bi experience with a friend when I was 10. It freaked me out so much that I put it in the back of my head for a really long time but as I got older, that curiosity came back.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Yeah, a lot, I still do. But sexuality in broader terms, not the attraction to certain gender/sex. Maybe trying to understand rather than questioning.
Reject · 26-30, M
Yeah. I noticed as I got older, my preference in character developed which is my sexuality.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
No, I am what I am. When it comes to sex the only questions I have are: when, where, with whom?
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A few times. It's constantly evolving and changing. That's why I identify as queer, now.
A very long time ago. My parents or siblings never cared.
No, not really. My preference has never changed in the last 4 decades.
Keeper · M
Nope. Just questioned why I wasn’t having more.
Fairydust · F
No never.
kutee · T
many times
carpediem · 61-69, M
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We have more of a touch based relationship

 
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