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Have u ever questioned your sexuality

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Yes for a few years. I went from straight to bi curious and now just bi. All those labels don't really mean anything though just be who you are and do whatever makes you happy.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether I completely agree
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Not really. It was clear from a young age that I was attracted to other guys. I just went through a period of really not wanting it to be true and hoping I would be straight some day. Didn’t end up happening 😑
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Yep , but I don’t think I could ever be romantically involved with a girl
ReneeT · 61-69, F
A few times. But I've never explored it any further than here
I held back a lot, then I found myself and my flower bloomed.
kittee · 22-25
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Never. I know that it's advantageous to be straight, and I can live with being imperfect.
the answer could be simple. hormonal effects on brain activity.

if you go into the realm of psychology and sociology, you will get lost and find no answers.

what a person thinks about their sexuality is unimportant.

sexuality depends on your environment. sexuality can be spontaneous and volatile.
In my teenage years I had a few moments of doubts
Convivial · 26-30, F
Nope... It's just there
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
Yes, when I was like 12-16
plasticpants02 · 70-79, M
Definitely.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
What does 'sexuality' mean?

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Preferences in other people for sex (ie. guy likes women and men or just women, or isn't sure or chops/changes) or whether a person is homo/homer/hetero/metro/demi/pan/sapio/etc.

I'm a man and I like women but I've always wanted to experience being with m/f couples (and maybe f/f couples) though I know none of that can ever really happen because of my fears about sex, relationships, and dating.

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Or one's own gender identity questioning.

i'm a man but sometimes wish I wasn't, but it's unchangable as it would destroy my 'identity' so I don't worry about it. As a woman I could have relationships with other women far more successfully that I can as a man, but it's in the realm of unicorning which I know is impossible.
kittee · 22-25
@zonavar68 it means do you fancy women or men simple really
No. I’ve been clear on my sexuality since age 7. I knew I liked girls and also what kind of girls.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@Rolexeo my exploration of bisexuality came from a supportive str8 but kinky relationship with my ex. She and I had a healthy sexual relationship that grew. . Please read my story here.
https://similarworlds.com/lgbtq/bisexual/6943-My-exploration-began-with-a-healthy-interest-in
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
No, it isn't something you have to think about. You'll know if something turns you on or not. People that "explore" their sexuality are typically in denial.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@Rolexeo I disagree. My exploration was helpful to my understanding
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
@biandlargeny why did you? And what did you discover?
No, not really. My preference has never changed in the last 4 decades.
A very long time ago. My parents or siblings never cared.
Keeper · M
Nope. Just questioned why I wasn’t having more.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Yeah, a lot, I still do. But sexuality in broader terms, not the attraction to certain gender/sex. Maybe trying to understand rather than questioning.
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
Yup. Had my first bi experience with a friend when I was 10. It freaked me out so much that I put it in the back of my head for a really long time but as I got older, that curiosity came back.
DragonFruit · 70-79, M
Yes....and I’ve identified as straight until my mid 20s, gay until I was 30, bisexual until recently and now identify as gay.
A lot of questioning and analysis have led me to change how I see myself several times over my lifetime.
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No never.
kittee · 22-25
many times
carpediem · 61-69, M
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anoderod55 · 61-69, M
@silkydrawers ❤️🤗
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@silkydrawers totally agree with you, although I have a very feminine side which I am quite comfortable with I would not do away with my dick it is part of who I am.
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Reject · 26-30, M
Yeah. I noticed as I got older, my preference in character developed which is my sexuality.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Define 'sexuality' in this context... Your preferences in other people? Yourself (whether you feel your gender is wrong)? Whether you are hetero/homo/metro/pan/demi/sapio/multi/etc.?
Fullmetal · 51-55, M
I'm as straight as the pole your momma dances on....😉
@Fullmetal You’re so straight, your house doesn’t even have a back door!
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A few times. It's constantly evolving and changing. That's why I identify as queer, now.
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
Yes, In high school I had a weird gay dream about kissing my male teacher that freaked me out and made me overthink my sexuality for a couple of weeks before realizing it was just a meaningless dream.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
No, I am what I am. When it comes to sex the only questions I have are: when, where, with whom?
Not really. I mean I found myself turning things over in my head when I realized I find some trans women and non binary folks attractive too. That didn't last long when I realized it changed nothing for me and I don't give a shit what others think. If someone wants to call me bi because I am attracted to a trans woman or a non binary person that is their issue, not mine.
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We have more of a touch based relationship
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