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There isn't someone for everyone.

People need to stop lying.
Busybee333 · 31-35, F Best Comment
I understand how you feel.
Though I must remind you that the way you think holds power.

If you think it is hopeless, it will be. If you think there is a way, there will always be.

I know your pain has pushed you to extremes.. but you don't seem okay with your own statement, that means you want there to be a way but you are not ready to pursue it.

It seems that you have been attracting in your life people that were not as you wanted. It's okay, it can happen. Maybe you had to learn something from them, or them from you. Maybe your state of mind and energy were in a specific way, which attracted these people closer. At that time, you had to meet them even if you didn't know the reason. Perhaps, you were simply in a similar state of mind.

Luck also plays a role, but luck is volatile, you can't have 0 luck all the time, there will eventually be a lucky day! Therefore, focus on what you can do.

The relationship with yourself is important before you meet the one. It seems like you have some walls... some are to keep, others need breaking, as they are limiting you. Decide which ones you will bring down.

Become the one you want to meet, character wise. Something about that will make you take new decisions in life, which will bring new people, maybe even your perfect match ;)

Give yourself a chance, you've got nothing to lose. ❤
Jexie · 26-30, F
@Busybee333 Your wisdom blows my mind
Fairydust · F
@Busybee333

💯 I agree with you. ❤️

Castenmas · M
That’s because we keep telling people to be themselves. And as some people are cretins, this is truly terrible advice.
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@Castenmas "it's me. Hi. I'm the problem it's me" - me.
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
@Castenmas Then again, attaining the perfect relationship in a role... you will get exhausted from the mask you wear 24/7. The water will spill, your true self will come out unexpectedly, and it will make things worse. If someone is to walk away from the real you, you would prefer them to do it earlier, so that you can have a chance at meeting someone who would stay with you, for you, despite your vices. Yes, such people exist. So.. be honest even if you are afraid of rejection. In most cases, rejection works in your favor, it just takes time to process.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
There is someone for everyone. You just have to change something if its bot working out. Maybe your looking for a certain type of person thats not around you right now. Maybe change your standards, try something new or look somewhere else. Theres like 8 billion people.
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
We just feed people lies to placate them, then when they call it out they're gaslit and dogpiled. I think if people were honest shit would sort itself out.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
Agreed. Not every single person is fit to be in a relationship with somebody and I know there definitely isn't anybody out there for me. Even if there was at some point, she either killed herself or became a lesbian at some point.
Yes, this is true. I don't know where or how the common belief arose that there is "someone for everyone", because I've always known that isn't the case.
UnlikeableAndy · 36-40, M
Well now you tell me.. I’m off to shoot myself
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@UnlikeableAndy but you haven't seen the Barbie movie yet
UnlikeableAndy · 36-40, M
@assemblingaknob what that got to do with it?
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@UnlikeableAndy it means there's something to live for
SW-User
That is unfortunately a brutal truth
deadgerbil · 22-25
There's always Jesus
There was a huge likelihood of that in the past.
Now, mom's work in jobs and life is sicker. The genitalia are not as distinct. Fewer true males. Lots of fat people. Capitalism did it and nobody thinks we can stop it.
Jexie · 26-30, F
You can have connections of varying degrees with different people, but there is no one person for everyone
Jexie · 26-30, F
@Jexie Why the sad emoji..? Cheer up buttercup
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@Jexie I'm a buttercup and I have cheered up.
Busybee333 · 31-35, F
@Jexie You are very wise as well! If the relationship with match #1 doesn't go as desired, and you don't want to be single, it is far from over - you can meet other people that can be a perfect match for you, again, until it works!

*Bring your mind with you though, respect is important - if someone is playing yo-yo with your heart, let go.

:)

 
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