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I understand how you feel.
Though I must remind you that the way you think holds power.
If you think it is hopeless, it will be. If you think there is a way, there will always be.
I know your pain has pushed you to extremes.. but you don't seem okay with your own statement, that means you want there to be a way but you are not ready to pursue it.
It seems that you have been attracting in your life people that were not as you wanted. It's okay, it can happen. Maybe you had to learn something from them, or them from you. Maybe your state of mind and energy were in a specific way, which attracted these people closer. At that time, you had to meet them even if you didn't know the reason. Perhaps, you were simply in a similar state of mind.
Luck also plays a role, but luck is volatile, you can't have 0 luck all the time, there will eventually be a lucky day! Therefore, focus on what you can do.
The relationship with yourself is important before you meet the one. It seems like you have some walls... some are to keep, others need breaking, as they are limiting you. Decide which ones you will bring down.
Become the one you want to meet, character wise. Something about that will make you take new decisions in life, which will bring new people, maybe even your perfect match ;)
Give yourself a chance, you've got nothing to lose. ❤
Though I must remind you that the way you think holds power.
If you think it is hopeless, it will be. If you think there is a way, there will always be.
I know your pain has pushed you to extremes.. but you don't seem okay with your own statement, that means you want there to be a way but you are not ready to pursue it.
It seems that you have been attracting in your life people that were not as you wanted. It's okay, it can happen. Maybe you had to learn something from them, or them from you. Maybe your state of mind and energy were in a specific way, which attracted these people closer. At that time, you had to meet them even if you didn't know the reason. Perhaps, you were simply in a similar state of mind.
Luck also plays a role, but luck is volatile, you can't have 0 luck all the time, there will eventually be a lucky day! Therefore, focus on what you can do.
The relationship with yourself is important before you meet the one. It seems like you have some walls... some are to keep, others need breaking, as they are limiting you. Decide which ones you will bring down.
Become the one you want to meet, character wise. Something about that will make you take new decisions in life, which will bring new people, maybe even your perfect match ;)
Give yourself a chance, you've got nothing to lose. ❤
