So I met someone I really got on with and out of the blue she doesn't want anything to do with me

I know I didn't do anything bad, sometimes these things just happen. I don't know why things have to be complicated sometimes but I suppose people are by nature.

It's a real shame, we were like best friends and then *poof*. I'm a big boy so I'll be okay, it's nice to actually be at the point where I can feel fine about these kinds of things now, I wouldn't have been a decade ago. I don't take it personal anymore, I know we all have our struggles and internal complexities.
If we don't talk again I wish her the best and it was nice knowing her.

Apart from that life has improved for me recently in a big way, I finally have space to relax and focus on what I want to do. So I'm thankful for what I have in life, I'm greatful and very lucky in a lot of ways. I feel it's important to always feel greatful for what we have in our lives 🙏

I will keep training and studying, continuing my journey of actualisation and maybe I'll meet more cool people along the way. Peace and love

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DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F

Youre really mature and ive always valued your perspective on things. Im glad you didnt take that badly. It can feel like rejection when someone you like and are vibing with ghosts you but all you can do is assume when that happens. It would be nice to atleast have a reason why but the reasons can have everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Women do seem to change their feelings like a flick of a switch. Better to end it now than to really catch feelings with the wrong one

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Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@DarkSideoftheMoon Whaaat I was living just past the big cathedral you know!. I woulda met up for a chill and a chat if you had. Well I'm glad it's going well for you :) puhh all the politics can go away now, I'm not really listening to the news anymore, next election they'll be out and until then there's no point in stressing anymore.

DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F

Yeah all the strikes too its crazy! Nhs overwhelmed and under funded, jobs pay poorly even with a degree and rising costs. When i return to work im going to find a job i can walk to to save money and also so im not stranded at the train station cuz my train is cancelled or they are striking

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@DarkSideoftheMoon yeah haha. I'm glad the strikes are happening anyway, even if it's inconvenient. It's the only way they can make a change.

LaLumieri · 51-55, F

from someone who's been there a decade or two or three before you I want to just say this is a great attitude to have at this point in your life some of us took more years than that to be able to understand with ease what you just described. I can tell you you will have more people come and go along the way and more of them will go but if you retain something positive from them and accept that they were part of your journey and experience just like you are now you'll be just fine. Keep focusing on you and keep appreciating instead of dwelling on the coming and going. I wish you all the best.

Rocky101 · 51-55, M

@LaLumieri hi my friend how are you

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Sorry about that, good attitude though.
Sometimes people have way way too many expectations of others and can't just accept it as is. On-line seems to be worse than in real world. It's too hard to know what's really going on with someone so the imagination takes over and it's not often right. Could be their imagination made a mole hill into a mountain.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

What a good way to look at it

And just as you said, it may be something she is going through and had to do alone

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@WaryWitchWandering I think so too. When we're hurt we tend to hurt others even if we don't mean it.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@Ryannnnnn so true, especially if unaware of your own wounds and no healing has occurred

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@WaryWitchWandering Definitely, and some wounds are hard to heal even if you're aware of them.

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