So I met someone I really got on with and out of the blue she doesn't want anything to do with me

I know I didn't do anything bad, sometimes these things just happen. I don't know why things have to be complicated sometimes but I suppose people are by nature.

It's a real shame, we were like best friends and then *poof*. I'm a big boy so I'll be okay, it's nice to actually be at the point where I can feel fine about these kinds of things now, I wouldn't have been a decade ago. I don't take it personal anymore, I know we all have our struggles and internal complexities.
If we don't talk again I wish her the best and it was nice knowing her.

Apart from that life has improved for me recently in a big way, I finally have space to relax and focus on what I want to do. So I'm thankful for what I have in life, I'm greatful and very lucky in a lot of ways. I feel it's important to always feel greatful for what we have in our lives 🙏

I will keep training and studying, continuing my journey of actualisation and maybe I'll meet more cool people along the way. Peace and love

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DarkSideoftheMoon · 36-40, F

Youre really mature and ive always valued your perspective on things. Im glad you didnt take that badly. It can feel like rejection when someone you like and are vibing with ghosts you but all you can do is assume when that happens. It would be nice to atleast have a reason why but the reasons can have everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Women do seem to change their feelings like a flick of a switch. Better to end it now than to really catch feelings with the wrong one

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@DarkSideoftheMoon I do know the reasons, they're not mine or her fault per say. But it's not something I can fix or should, I wish her the best and hope she feels how she deserves to feel in the near future which is very good. Thanks btw, I hope things are going well for you where you're living now :) seems to be

DarkSideoftheMoon · 36-40, F

@Ryannnnnn thanks yeah its going well besides the crap everyone is stressing about and being a new mom and trying to lose the baby weight but all else is ok. Watching lots of Jeffrey dulmer stuff on netflix.

Hope all else is good for you too. I was in Liverpool last November and thought of u but wasnt sure if it were appropriate to meet but yeah i loved the night life. Cheap cocktails and lots of live music! I stayed right on the Merseyside too

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@DarkSideoftheMoon Whaaat I was living just past the big cathedral you know!. I woulda met up for a chill and a chat if you had. Well I'm glad it's going well for you :) puhh all the politics can go away now, I'm not really listening to the news anymore, next election they'll be out and until then there's no point in stressing anymore.

DarkSideoftheMoon · 36-40, F

Yeah all the strikes too its crazy! Nhs overwhelmed and under funded, jobs pay poorly even with a degree and rising costs. When i return to work im going to find a job i can walk to to save money and also so im not stranded at the train station cuz my train is cancelled or they are striking

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

@DarkSideoftheMoon yeah haha. I'm glad the strikes are happening anyway, even if it's inconvenient. It's the only way they can make a change.