My heart hurts reading this. I know how heavy it feels when another diagnosis gets added to a list that already feels unfairly long. It’s okay to feel broken right now — that doesn’t mean you are.
Your daughter is still the same sweet, incredible girl she was before those words were spoken. Tourette’s doesn’t take away who she is or who she can become, and having a parent who loves her as fiercely as you do already puts her miles ahead.
I know you carry your own experiences with this, and that probably makes it hit even deeper. But it also means you understand her in a way very few people ever could. She’s lucky to have you in her corner, even on the days it feels like you’re barely holding yourself together.
You don’t have to carry this alone. I’m here — for the venting, the anger, the grief, or the quiet moments when it all feels too much. 💛
Your daughter is still the same sweet, incredible girl she was before those words were spoken. Tourette’s doesn’t take away who she is or who she can become, and having a parent who loves her as fiercely as you do already puts her miles ahead.
I know you carry your own experiences with this, and that probably makes it hit even deeper. But it also means you understand her in a way very few people ever could. She’s lucky to have you in her corner, even on the days it feels like you’re barely holding yourself together.
You don’t have to carry this alone. I’m here — for the venting, the anger, the grief, or the quiet moments when it all feels too much. 💛
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@MyMonstersAreReal thank you dear friend that means alot to me. I need a bit of time to process this, a few cigars and whiskey and then I will support my girl like always
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Livingwell · 61-69, M
As a person living with Tourette's, it is not a life ending condition. Recent treatments, unlike 10yrs ago, work quite well with little to no side effects. I lived with it undiagnosed until 2010. By then I started destroying my neck joints with repetitive neck cracking. The new medication I am on works great. Inexpensive too. See a good neuro surgeon.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@Cigarguy a combo of Abilify and clonidine. My tics were destructive. My neck is fused now.
OCD is a companion of Tourette's. The cure of this was life changing. Sertraline
OCD is a companion of Tourette's. The cure of this was life changing. Sertraline
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@Livingwell I'm very glad that combination of meds is working for you. Life is definitely easier without tics and outburst. I don't know if I'll ever get to that point. My tourettes is pretty severe
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@Cigarguy Mine was very severe.
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I’m so sorry my friend. I know you’ll gear up for battle and fight this with her and support her as you’ve always done with each challenge your precious children have faced. But I know how devastating the news must have been to hear. 🫂
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@OlderSometimesWiser it was one of my biggest fears, but I know she will get the love, support and help she needs and I pray it will be easier for her to manage than it has been for me
Magicianzini · M
She's still the same person she was before. Nothing has changed. She just formally has the diag now, which is a good thing, so she can be better helped.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@Magicianzini she will get the love, support and help I never got at her age. I know things will be better for her because of this. I will not let her suffer like I did.
Magicianzini · M
@Cigarguy I knew you wouldn't.
This is a great opportunity to right a wrong.. though you may have to do some inner child work here.
I wish you both the best.
This is a great opportunity to right a wrong.. though you may have to do some inner child work here.
I wish you both the best.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@Magicianzini everything they did wrong with me, I'm going to right for her. She will never know what I went through.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
Oh no!!! Prayers and well wishes to her, you and your family. She's a tough girl and I am sure she will be alright. 🙏🙏
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@Barefooter25 I know she will. I will do everything I can to make sure she gets the love and support she needs
ineedadrink · 56-60, M
Having to watch your child cope with a chronic illness is such a difficult thing to endure. Especially when there isn't too much you can do to cure it. Hang in there Dad.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@ineedadrink thank you. I will be there for her every step of the way.
YoMomma ·
It will be ok ☺🤗
MarineBob · 61-69, M
Damn the luck. Wish I could have a excuse for my my outbursts












