I been watching some videos on YouTube about narcissism

and about how narcissists NEED to have an enemy because its part of their narcissistic supply or something

But yeah, if this is true... it got me thinking about how there are a lot of people who like to accuse everybody of hating them because they are (insert title here) even though the people they're accusing legit have a mile long list of all the reasons and proof of why they DON'T hate them 😂

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SnailTeeth · 36-40, M

A narcissist likes to keep plates spinning.
They like the illusion of control.
They like having an audience of "flying monkeys".
The narcissist needs to be mommy or daddy, they need to be the head, or closely work in concert with the archal figure.

When a narcissist realises you realise they're a narcissist, they'll cast as much shade at you as possible, in an attempt to steal any support they can out from under you.

They're insecure at the very least.

As a result, I think they try to hurt others to feel empowered.

The enemy/the scapegoat.

They fascinate me, and I still have great difficulty picking them out specifically. I think the majority of us are capable of exhibiting narcissism without even realising.

It's almost impossible to beat them when they're entrenched socially. Ever been in a toxic work environment? That's narcissism spoiling those apples. They hide behind group think. They're master manipulators.

They're good to those they can utilise. Or at least as good as they can be.